Topic: What the heck? Someone please explain this.
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Sat 02/21/09 06:12 PM
Edited by pgh82nyc on Sat 02/21/09 06:14 PM
This woman is different from the one I posted earlier (that post is on like page one or two titled, "I'm just wondering...what should I do?"). I'd just like some feedback

I met someone here on this site. We sent messages every now and then. Unlike the other woman in my other thread, I had little to no interest in her (romantically), and her profile even stated that she was looking just for friends. We were talking for some time, ad I'm thinking next time in Pittsburgh, I'll have someone new to hang out with, nothing more. We didn't talk about much, just how things were and about sports.

All of a sudden, she removed me as one of her "friends". I thought this was because her account was disabled, but no, it was still there. I mean I've been cutoff like this once before, but I could think of the things that would have contributed to them. But I did nothing to this girl, hence why I'm typing this. I (stupidly) wrote a message to her trying to find out how she was and asked why she basically cut me off - no response. I would understand if I made overtures to her, and she didn't like it. but again I had no interest her at all, so I didn't make any.

I mean I don't want to speak to her anytime soon (I don't want to be around such schizoid behavior), but may someone explain this? Did I do anything wrong? (I don't think so, but hey, you never know) I mean, I don't want to be attracting crazy people. Nor would I want to continue if I am doing something wrong.

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Sat 02/21/09 06:15 PM

This woman is different from the one I posted earlier (that post is on like page two by now titled, "What should I do?"). I'd just like some feedback

I met someone here on this site. We sent messages every now and then. Unlike the other woman in my other thread, I had little to no interest in her (romantically), and her profile even stated that she was looking just for friends. We were talking for some time, ad I'm thinking next time in Pittsburgh, I'll have someone new to hang out with, nothing more. We didn't talk about much, just how things were and about sports.

All of a sudden, she removed me as one of her "friends". I thought this was because her account was disabled, but no, it was still there. I mean I've been cutoff like this once before, but I could think of the things that would have contributed to them. But I did nothing to this girl, hence why I'm typing this. I (stupidly) wrote a message to her trying to find out how she was and asked why she basically cut me off - no response. I would understand if I made overtures to her, and she didn't like it. but again I had no interest her at all, so I didn't make any.

I mean I don't want to speak to her anytime soon (I don't want to be around such schizoid behavior), but may someone explain this? Did I do anything wrong? (I don't think so, but hey, you never know) I mean, I don't want to be attracting crazy people. Nor would I want to continue if I am doing something wrong.


Man,you are thinking to much slaphead slaphead

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Sat 02/21/09 06:16 PM
you want someone to explain the behavior of weman?

good luck with that

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Sat 02/21/09 06:16 PM
Edited by pgh82nyc on Sat 02/21/09 06:17 PM
GlamorousLyly, that's what I do bigsmile

Keeps me from getting into trouble the first time

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Sat 02/21/09 06:18 PM
It's the internet, that stuff happens.. I wouldn't call it psycho or schizy.. it is what it is.. I personally wouldn't give it another thought unless I cared...

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Sat 02/21/09 06:18 PM

you want someone to explain the behavior of weman?

good luck with that


True. but I was like what the heck? I'm befuddled.

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Sat 02/21/09 06:22 PM
Two things occur to me. First as previously pointed out it's the internet. Sh!t happens on a daily basis. Second, you've been on this site less than a month. Therefore you haven't known her all that long. I think you might be overreacting just a bit?? Maybe this is a behavior she did not care for? Dunno, just a thought.

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Sat 02/21/09 06:22 PM

It's the internet, that stuff happens.. I wouldn't call it psycho or schizy.. it is what it is.. I personally wouldn't give it another thought unless I cared...


true, I should know this slaphead

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Sat 02/21/09 06:23 PM


you want someone to explain the behavior of weman?

good luck with that


True. but I was like what the heck? I'm befuddled.
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don't lie you self , if you care that much because you are not in her list anymore if because you like her .don't you?

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Sat 02/21/09 06:25 PM

Two things occur to me. First as previously pointed out it's the internet. Sh!t happens on a daily basis. Second, you've been on this site less than a month. Therefore you haven't known her all that long. I think you might be overreacting just a bit?? Maybe this is a behavior she did not care for? Dunno, just a thought.


Both of you're points are well, taken. it's life.

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Sat 02/21/09 06:33 PM



you want someone to explain the behavior of weman?

good luck with that


True. but I was like what the heck? I'm befuddled.
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don't lie you self , if you care that much because you are not in her list anymore if because you like her .don't you?

uh, no. She was not even on my radar screen. I just was like what the heck? I just found the behavior a bit odd.

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Sat 02/21/09 06:35 PM
a woman acting odd?

who woulda thought?

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Sat 02/21/09 06:40 PM
Maybe you answered your own question.

You had no romantic interest. Made no overtures. Blahhhhzing goes the "Friend" link.


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Sat 02/21/09 06:41 PM

a woman acting odd?

who woulda thought?


You know Quiet it is the internet. People act odderer all the time out here.

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Sat 02/21/09 06:42 PM
hahaha that's a no sh*tter

I was just pokin fun at the wimmen folks anyway

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Sat 02/21/09 06:47 PM


a woman acting odd?

who woulda thought?


You know Quiet it is the internet. People act odderer all the time out here.


lol, true. Craziness is abound. I can't respond to that