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Topic: No, Never, Not Right Now, I am Sorry I Can't
PacificStar48's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:58 PM
When someone wants me to do something I have learned to tell them I will think about it and get back with them. If I still want to do it after 24 hours I still make it very clear what the boundries are and ask a lot of questions. If I don't like the answers I say no.

99% of the time someone asks you to do something at the last minute it was their responsibility and they found out it was a pain or impossible and they don't want to get stuck holding the bag.

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Sat 02/21/09 03:26 AM
I have a hard time saying no. I still do it, but its uncomfortable.

I used to be really really shy... And then I realized no one else will stand up for me if I dont stand up for myself, so I made myself do something I didn't like, or feared, every day.

It worked. :)

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Sat 02/21/09 08:02 AM
No...

fairycatcher31's photo
Sat 02/21/09 08:04 AM
I am still learning to say NO, said yes to tooo many things!

Phuque2's photo
Sat 02/21/09 08:06 AM

No...


But......but you said you were hungry and wanted to go to lunch and have an Angry Whopper. And I was so excited about giving you one.pitchfork

prisoner's photo
Sat 02/21/09 08:07 AM
:smile: i have no problem saying "NO" every year i like to call up the Jerry Lewis Telethon and tell them i'm NOT sending money be seeing you

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Sat 02/21/09 08:07 AM


No...


But......but you said you were hungry and wanted to go to lunch and have an Angry Whopper. And I was so excited about giving you one.pitchfork



Yea...you gave it to me all right...I'll change my NO to a definite MAYBE...devil

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Sat 02/21/09 11:55 AM
So what about you? Are you a yes person or a no person?

There was a time I don't think it was in my vocabulary the older I get the easier it is to say and mean..

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