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Your significant other goes out of town for the weekend.You go out with your girlfriends while he is gone.When he returns, he interrogates about where you have been and what you did.He is mad that you went out.What do you do?Should you have stayed home?
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Your significant other goes out of town for the weekend.You go out with your girlfriends while he is gone.When he returns, he interrogates about where you have been and what you did.He is mad that you went out.What do you do?Should you have stayed home? Hell No! If he is the type that gets pissed that you go out with friends when he is gone, he is controlling, possibly manipulative, and just shown one of the early warning signs of a possible abuser. "Get out now," would be my response. |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Thu 02/19/09 03:08 PM
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Your significant other goes out of town for the weekend.You go out with your girlfriends while he is gone.When he returns, he interrogates about where you have been and what you did.He is mad that you went out.What do you do?Should you have stayed home? Hell No! If he is the type that gets pissed that you go out with friends when he is gone, he is controlling, possibly manipulative, and just shown one of the early warning signs of a possible abuser. "Get out now," would be my response. |
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If he says anything other than did you have a good time then he is probably not worth your time.... sorry, but its a good sign he's got some deeper rooted issues....
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I would have probaly discussed it before I went good commication can make or break a relationship
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Nope...if he doesn't want to trust me, he has no spot in my life...and if he is that insecure...then maybe he should have stayed home
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The day the significant other controls what I do in my free time is the day he picks his stuff off the front lawn.
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Which one am I......again?????? the one that stayed home????
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If the guy doesn't offer to "help out" with the expenses of her having another gathering/night-out with friends, then he is just missing a huge opportunity to express true love.
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In a healthy relationship, he would have no reason to be mad at her. If I go out with my buddies, she is more than welcome to go out with her friends or sisters.........hell, she can go out any time she wants.........PLEASE GO OUT!!!!
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If he says anything other than did you have a good time then he is probably not worth your time.... sorry, but its a good sign he's got some deeper rooted issues.... |
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I would have probaly discussed it before I went good commication can make or break a relationship |
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Nope...if he doesn't want to trust me, he has no spot in my life...and if he is that insecure...then maybe he should have stayed home |
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The day the significant other controls what I do in my free time is the day he picks his stuff off the front lawn. |
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Which one am I......again?????? the one that stayed home???? |
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if my significant other did that................
he would no longer BE My significant other........... |
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Why did he go out of town for in the first place? Was it business? Was it a fishing trip with his buddies? Was it something fun and he didn't want me goin along? If he's gonna have the balls to go off somewhere for the weekend to have some fun without me and then get all pissy cause I went out for a girl's night I'm gonna be having a bon fire in the back yard with his clothes.
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Your significant other goes out of town for the weekend.You go out with your girlfriends while he is gone.When he returns, he interrogates about where you have been and what you did.He is mad that you went out.What do you do?Should you have stayed home? Oh Mirror this is to funny.. This kind of happened to me... Except we were in a LDR...I finally couldn't take it anymore of the interrogation of where I had been who I had been talking to etc... etc.. I lost my temper and told him if he had this many issues we weren't compatible. I will not tolerate this type of jealousy or insecurities. I don't care if we were married... If I was the one that went out of town for the week I would expect him to go out and do something..Why should he sit at home. |
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