Topic: Who do you confide in the most?
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Fri 02/20/09 06:40 AM

bigsmile Who do you confide in the most?bigsmile


Nobody anymore. I've always been the counselor type, the one everybody comes to with problems and such -- the very few I was ever really able to open up to have all disappeared in the last 6 months.



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Fri 02/20/09 06:42 AM
Where did they go?



bigsmile Who do you confide in the most?bigsmile


Nobody anymore. I've always been the counselor type, the one everybody comes to with problems and such -- the very few I was ever really able to open up to have all disappeared in the last 6 months.




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Fri 02/20/09 06:47 AM

Where did they go?



bigsmile Who do you confide in the most?bigsmile


Nobody anymore. I've always been the counselor type, the one everybody comes to with problems and such -- the very few I was ever really able to open up to have all disappeared in the last 6 months.






They're still alive, they just don't talk to me anymore because:

a.) They don't have any problems they need me to solve at the moment, and

b.) I've had some major problems of my own since about August and they don't want to get involved. Like the car crash a couple weeks ago -- I still can't find anyone, of all my "friends," who will take me to get my prescriptions filled, or take me to the doctor I'm supposed to see. You find out who your friends really are when something like this happens, and, as it turns out, I really don't have any.


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Fri 02/20/09 06:48 AM
Fongul, Lexy. whoa

That really burns me up.

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Fri 02/20/09 06:48 AM
yes....when moving or painting your house are other "friend definers"



Where did they go?



bigsmile Who do you confide in the most?bigsmile


Nobody anymore. I've always been the counselor type, the one everybody comes to with problems and such -- the very few I was ever really able to open up to have all disappeared in the last 6 months.






They're still alive, they just don't talk to me anymore because:

a.) They don't have any problems they need me to solve at the moment, and

b.) I've had some major problems of my own since about August and they don't want to get involved. Like the car crash a couple weeks ago -- I still can't find anyone, of all my "friends," who will take me to get my prescriptions filled, or take me to the doctor I'm supposed to see. You find out who your friends really are when something like this happens, and, as it turns out, I really don't have any.



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Fri 02/20/09 07:03 AM

Fongul, Lexy. whoa

That really burns me up.


Oh, they'll be back around -- if they need help with something, or if the book sales start getting high enough....assuming I'm still here, that is....

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Fri 02/20/09 07:05 AM
Fokkers....

I wish you were closer. I left work just last week to go to the store to get my sick BFF popsicles, bubble bath, and Sprite when she was ill.....

It is so important to take care of those you love, IMO.

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Fri 02/20/09 08:04 AM

Fokkers....

I wish you were closer. I left work just last week to go to the store to get my sick BFF popsicles, bubble bath, and Sprite when she was ill.....

It is so important to take care of those you love, IMO.
agreed. I always help my friends. And my friends always help me. We give... we take... we give... we take. Neither of us only gives or only takes. That's why we're still friends.

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Fri 02/20/09 08:33 AM
perhaps I will get a pet.........probably the best to vent to , confide in, and just listen without judgment..

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Fri 02/20/09 08:34 AM
That's why people with pets live longer....laugh

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Fri 02/20/09 08:36 AM
If i pet my pet...with a heavy hand is that considered molestation?

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Fri 02/20/09 08:40 AM
My Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, ......

We talk alllllll the time, and I wait patiently on him.....


Now, for those that walk this earth with me, usually, my pastor or my aunt; the only 2 most honest people in my life although they don't always tell me what I want to hear but, I take what I can get with only 2 options

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Fri 02/20/09 08:40 AM

If i pet my pet...with a heavy hand is that considered molestation?


Nope.... you're good to go! Now, if they bite you... I'd say that was too much heavy petting...laugh

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Fri 02/20/09 08:51 AM
I would have to say also Jesus Christ


and then Judy fade2black gigglesnort

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Fri 02/20/09 08:57 AM
Defo my sis, shes the 1 person i can talk to about absolutely everything.

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Fri 02/20/09 09:25 AM

JBombflowers ....she knows more about me than my Momma!!!!



:heart: flowers Always here for ya, dollflowers :heart:

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Fri 02/20/09 05:05 PM
My two best friends.. They both happen to be guys. One is gay, the other is bi, and they used to date eachother. There isn't anything I can bring to them that they don't have some opinion, view, or solution for. :) (And pretty much nothing can surprise them either. ;) )

They're the best...

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Fri 02/20/09 05:20 PM

I would have to say also Jesus Christ


and then Judy fade2black gigglesnort
flowers

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Fri 02/20/09 05:25 PM
I have a best friend that knows more about me than anyone else on earth. He has been there for me through the most trying times in my life and he has counseled me about what to do when there are signs of my past mistakes starting to surface.

He has been my best friend and support system when my whole world came crashing down on one of the most horrible nights in my life when I thought I had lost my daughter forever.

Now THAT is a best friend in my book.

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Fri 02/20/09 05:29 PM
:heart: To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.:heart: