....instigates mayhem and drama for their own personal amusement????

I get bored really fast....then I make a sandwich!!

they would fit in well in the mingle forums

Can't take them seriously.

Hey can I get one of those, since you are making them of course....

I had a friend like this......always instigating things. We were in more bar fights than I care to remember. I dumped her as a friend pretty quickly. I dont need people like that in my life.

It's stupid , people who do that are miserable, solve your issues & get back to life!

They can be entertaining for a brief time but quickly grow tiresome.

Another question, have you ever caught yourself doing it back, just because you are pissed at their treatment of others???

drop them out of your life...who needs the added drama

I agree and have had to end fights myself, because of crud like that.

I like it when they say that the people they are amused by are stupid despite those very people sticking up for the drama drama drama instigator.

It makes me wanna shakem up...

But I also enjoy when said instigators admit their behavior and the pleasure they received.. that was an added bonus.

Why do you think they enjoy this type of behaviour??? I wonder what they actually really get out of it, besides deserted that is???

I say ignore and they get bored and go away.

i usually ignore them

They are sad and lonely.

They think they are smarter than they really are.

They have self esteem issues.

They may have a personality disorder or characteristics of a personality disorder.


But really, they are just an asshole. That is all the other stuff really means anyhow. Sophomoric and juvenile displays of the issues above are illustrated by behaviors which are broadly but accurately described as being exhibited by "assholes"...

They get their jollies.....or are bored and thats the only way they get attention.

Actually, the more I think about it, that friend would probably be considered psychotic.

Some people are doing it to somehow feel better about themselves. They're covering up whatever issues they have.

This is "My Take on the Subject"
It's the same reason why so many used to listen to Howard Stern..for it's shock value..
Once you figure that part out, then you get upset, they got you hooked in..like a fish!
It's human nature, we all want to fit in and be somebody, sometimes there are those who like to "stir the pot"..and make things interesting, it's kind of like the old 15 minutes of fame deal..
It's all about attention, it doesn't matter if it's positive or negative, YOUR being noticed..
As for the No Drama people..thats not really plausible.
Everyone has problems, everyone has issues..
problems and issues = drama.
the reality is..those who say "no drama"..worry me..after all..a real friend stands by their friends when problems arise, or are faced with difficulties..by saying No Drama..is actually saying.."your on your own"..which is selfish, self-centered and self serving. and means that you've failed kindergarten..because thats where we all learn the valuable life lessons. you know the one about taking care of each other.
perhaps the instigators are really calling out for help, because no one seems to care enough to lend an ear and listen..and thats a shame..
Well, thats my take on the subject. think about it..