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Yeaaaaa! I think it's hot if my guy draws attention. What's even hotter is when he is the kind of guy that takes it in stride -- doesn't act cocky about it -- and is happy to be with me.
 Now, to find a guy or let him find me!  Melody 
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important that the person you are out with draw looks of attention and desire from others? not importaint that my bf/date draws looks.. ifi think hes hot and he keeps my attention. if im out with my friends. i like it when they draw the looks (myfriends are all way prettier than i am so they get the looks.. im the "wingman"kinda friend) makes it easier when they ask me later if i think that "the cute guy in the corner thinks im hot?/ should i go talk to him??" hehehe.. |
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You've never talked to your friends about dating someone other than to rub it in their faces? Not just because you're excited about the person you're dating? Not just because you like them? that isn't my point at all....of course you are gonna be excited about your partner and tell everyone all about him......but you are gonna tell me that there isn't a little feeling of pride in showing him off?? LOOKEY AT WHAT I HAVE!! |
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Nope, my guy is for my eyes only. The IMPORTANT thing is are they looking at ME!!!
  Like that will ever happen. 
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Nope, my guy is for my eyes only. The IMPORTANT thing is are they looking at ME!!! Like that will ever happen. i am sure it happens to you more than you know 
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I think it might be a thing men like to know other guys want what they have you are telling me that women do not want to show off their GREAT man to all of their friends and show how great he is.....so that they can kinda rub it in their faces?? i think to a degree we ALL want to be proud to be with the person that we are....and physical appearance is a part of that as well its not important if other people validate thats hes attractiveI certainly don't need don't need to rub anything in other's faces.
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You've never talked to your friends about dating someone other than to rub it in their faces? Not just because you're excited about the person you're dating? Not just because you like them? that isn't my point at all....of course you are gonna be excited about your partner and tell everyone all about him......but you are gonna tell me that there isn't a little feeling of pride in showing him off?? LOOKEY AT WHAT I HAVE!! If you need to show off someone you're dating in order to make yourself feel good, go for it. Just don't assume everyone is doing that. If I'm with someone, it's because I like them. Not because I think other people will get jealous, or because I can show them off. |
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that is very admirable of you to feel that way.....if it is true then good for you
by the way, don't twist around what i said to make it seem like i date someone to show them off......i am just saying that it is a good feeling to have.....i have shown off every woman that i have been with because i want to proclaim to everyone that she is special to me....not to make myself feel better |
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It was the "LOOKEY AT WHAT I HAVE!!" that I was responding to. I don't do that. However, if someone is special to me, others will see that I feel that way.
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ooooookay, i get it....you don't like to show off your lover
so do you mind it if he DOES get looks?? |
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ooooookay, i get it....you don't like to show off your lover so do you mind it if he DOES get looks?? I don't see why it would bother me. |
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but you wouldn't feel the slightest bit excited if he DID get looks and he told you "But you are the one that hold MY eye"
be honest here |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Tue 02/17/09 02:03 PM
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I've been honest already. I'm not going out on a date with someone in hopes that others find them attractive. I'm going out with them because I'm into them. So no, it doesn't matter if others look at him or not.
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you are looking at my point all wrong.....i am not implying that you are out with this person FOR the attention of others....but i am saying that if you DO get the attention of others that it is a cool feeling to have
again, not necessary and kinda like 5 dollars you find in your pocket randomly.....no big deal if it doesn't happen because you didn't expect it anyways....but if it does then it is cool |
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Good god, man. Drop it already. We know that you like to show off who you're dating. We get it.
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Good god, man. Drop it already. We know that you like to show off who you're dating. We get it. . but you won't admit that YOU DO!!! |
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Why do you keep assuming I'm lying?
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I got a kick out of introducing my FWB to my BFF (long story)... he is easy to talk to and laid back and totally does not look like he F's like a rock star.
So it was nice to have her see what I saw, the attitude thing. The ease of conversation... |
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Introducing someone you're dating (or a fwb) to friends is different than saying "haha look what I have and you don't!" I don't think it's a bad thing at all to find out what friends think.
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Introducing someone you're dating (or a fwb) to friends is different than saying "haha look what I have and you don't!" I don't think it's a bad thing at all to find out what friends think. Oh it was his idea to meet her... but I admit I totally asked her to tell me what she thought of how he was around me to figure him out. She couldn't... but they adored one another. Afterwards I realized they have a lot in common and it's why I like him so much, plus he's smarter than me. But if I wanted to show him off I might get arrested and at the very least asked to leave my friend's house. |
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