Topic: Should I?
Misspharry1017's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:12 PM
Edited by Misspharry1017 on Sun 02/15/09 11:16 PM
Well I met a man on here, Mingle2, who ended up being engaged/married the entire time I was with him to another woman on here, Mingle2. We left each other once I found out. Well come to find out he is now still legally maried and dating another woman who found out about me, on here as well. Well he said a lot about me, very negative. Recently I got an email from him explaining himself. All the past is speeding up with me once I was getting better and overcoming it all. Should I ignore everything from him and just the situation or work it out face to face instead of stupid email and both try to move on with our lives?

steven_ross32's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:22 PM
sounds like a soap opera laugh
if he is still married, then i would tell him to go get lost. if he wants to be with you then tell him to get a divorce.

Misspharry1017's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:29 PM

sounds like a soap opera laugh
if he is still married, then i would tell him to go get lost. if he wants to be with you then tell him to get a divorce.
He doesnt want to be with me...Lol. Thats the last thing on both of our minds.

usernamesroverrated's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:31 PM
i would ignore,

but thats just me

steven_ross32's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:32 PM
ok then just move on with ur lives

darkowl1's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:32 PM
you must move on and heal. he's a habitual cheater, and will never stop. and things he said about you, have no meaning, for you didn't violate anything. you have great things in your future, and it's pointless letting these things get in your way.flowerforyou drinker

Misspharry1017's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:33 PM

ok then just move on with ur lives



Im talking about like to put closure to it lol.

darkowl1's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:37 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Sun 02/15/09 11:39 PM


ok then just move on with ur lives



Im talking about like to put closure to it lol.

close it.....for sure. answer this....what good could possibly come from deceit. ( his, not you)
he blew it. no one can be that damn good to frost over i'lls and deception.

Misspharry1017's photo
Sun 02/15/09 11:41 PM



ok then just move on with ur lives



Im talking about like to put closure to it lol.

close it.....for sure. answer this....what good could possibly come from deceit. ( his, not you)
he blew it. no one can be that damn good to frost over i'lls and deception.

Your right. Lol. And btw I love the picture lol.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:23 AM
interact more here on the forums, be who you are and everyone will get a pretty good idea regardless of what he or anyone else says. finally, it only matters who you are and what you do not what someone else says or what someone else decides to do...

so, it is already closed. you only have to realize that closure.

flowerforyou bigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:33 AM
Ignore.

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:39 AM
Why keep the drama going, it's in the past, leave it there. There are plenty of great guys out there who would be lucky to have you.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:45 AM
Move foreward. Not backward.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:49 AM

Well I met a man on here, Mingle2, who ended up being engaged/married the entire time I was with him to another woman on here, Mingle2. We left each other once I found out. Well come to find out he is now still legally maried and dating another woman who found out about me, on here as well. Well he said a lot about me, very negative. Recently I got an email from him explaining himself. All the past is speeding up with me once I was getting better and overcoming it all. Should I ignore everything from him and just the situation or work it out face to face instead of stupid email and both try to move on with our lives?

If I were you I wouldn't have any contact with him anymore.JMO

no photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:49 AM
I don't think there's anything to be gained by maintaining communication with the guy. He has his patterns and he's going to keep them. No point in getting entangled with him again.