Topic: What is wrong with me?...
FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:02 PM

I was nice, agreed with his ideas, but he still didnt call, and never answered his phone. His phone has recently been disconnected, but he could have called me from any phone. He could have sent me an email. But I trusted him, thought he had changed. Now I'm screwed and in desperate need!! What can I do?


This is what happens when you think someone will change or has changed...people are creatures of habit, we don't change.

MickyG's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:13 PM
I take it that means you will forever, til you die, take pics of yourself in the mirror and keep the 70's punk hairstyle alive even if you should live to be 100??? lol

Winx's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:15 PM


Thank you all for your support, but again, this wasn't a romantic entanglement. It was business, he didn't want a peice of a$$ or anything. And with the whole Jail thing, we were going to film at his house, I dont feel comfortable visiting a stranger's house, especially if I know he was in prison before, twice.


You will likely find the answer to your questions with your own statements.

You will be hard pressed to find a videotographer willing to take on any job for free. There is a lot of time and effort required to make a video that does justice to the material.

I have great respect in you not feeling comfortable visiting a strangers house, with a green room, that is supposedly a videotographer. Especially in St. Louis!!!


What's wrong with St. Louis?

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:17 PM

I take it that means you will forever, til you die, take pics of yourself in the mirror and keep the 70's punk hairstyle alive even if you should live to be 100??? lol


Is this some sort of piss worthy bash on punk? Grow up...

MickyG's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:19 PM
Humans are not creatures of habit, like any animal we are creatures of survival. Habits do however spawn from ways of survival.
Bottom line we are all capable of change, hopefully for the better, as we mature and learn from past mistakes, everyone can overcome any challenge no matter it being a learned behavior or just common sense.
If I was a true creature of habit I would still be wearing diapers!

Winx's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:19 PM

Humans are not creatures of habit, like any animal we are creatures of survival. Habits do however spawn from ways of survival.
Bottom line we are all capable of change, hopefully for the better, as we mature and learn from past mistakes, everyone can overcome any challenge no matter it being a learned behavior or just common sense.
If I was a true creature of habit I would still be wearing diapers!


What's wrong with St. Louis?

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:27 PM

Humans are not creatures of habit, like any animal we are creatures of survival. Habits do however spawn from ways of survival.
Bottom line we are all capable of change, hopefully for the better, as we mature and learn from past mistakes, everyone can overcome any challenge no matter it being a learned behavior or just common sense.
If I was a true creature of habit I would still be wearing diapers!


Habits are a survival mechanism. Why some people hide in a hole to protect themselves, while others seek refuge in other people. All habitual.

Jimmy59's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:36 PM


He provided my only source of happiness, now I have to find someone else, and I dont think I have time. Why can't I stop crying?


For cryin out loud. Don't put all hope of happiness on a man. You do that and you'll NEVER be happy. (No offense, guys.) Men generally want a woman who isn't an emotional leech. And the point is...to each bring your own happiness to the mix.

I think you need to find your happy place. THEN...you'll be ready for a man.
YEAH !!!smokin

no photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:39 PM
lol. I dont think you guys understand, read all my replies, then maybe you will. But thank you.

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:45 PM

lol. I dont think you guys understand, read all my replies, then maybe you will. But thank you.


First post was "But I trusted him, thought he had changed. Now I'm screwed and in desperate need!! What can I do?"...you thought he had changed, now you're screwed and he is not...not much really needed outside of those couple lines...

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 02/13/09 10:52 PM
I think we are being punked! If not this young lady needs to proceed immediately to Mental Health services. Even considering going to an ExCon's place to have a video tape made sounds suicideal to me.

no photo
Fri 02/13/09 11:17 PM
Oh, I wouldn't go alone, lol. My roommate was going to go with me
laugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 02/13/09 11:19 PM

Oh, I wouldn't go alone, lol. My roommate was going to go with me
laugh


Absolutely. Couldn't POSSIBLY do harm to BOTH of you now could he??

no photo
Fri 02/13/09 11:23 PM
I have a weapon I would have brought with me

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 02/13/09 11:25 PM
Brute force honesty to follow, read on with careful eye's.

You are making poor decisions, very poor decisions...as is evident with you even thinking of going to visit someone that you would even ponder bringing a weapon with. Work on your decision making skills.

Some stupid yet probably funny comment to follow this line.

The birds are flying south, why in the hell?

davidben1's photo
Fri 02/13/09 11:37 PM

No, it's not what you think. I've been working on a video for Biggest Loser, it was fool proof, with this, I was definetly going to get in, and he was going to film it for me, for free. He had a green screen and everything. But everytime we had a plan to film, he came up with excuses, today I told him had to be the day, he called me at midnight last night, to go over what we were going to do, then today rolls around, and cannot be heard from. Now I have to find someone with a green screen, that can tape me, all for free. I trusted him because on his myspace, he admitted to going to prison twice, but I didnt judge him, hell, I didnt even bring it up. Last time I do that!!!!


do you actually propose to make anybody believe there is one actually this naive???

if one seek what be free, for itself to profit and take the easy, self only get back misery, as you "judged not" only to get what you wanted you see???

MickyG's photo
Sat 02/14/09 12:19 AM
I have reviewed all said, regarding this topic and have come to find that everyone is correct in advice with exception of my posts. So I ask myself what is wrong with St. Louis? LOL

no photo
Sat 02/14/09 12:21 AM
maybe its that big hairy mole.....he couldnt stop staring at!!!surprised :wink: laugh laugh

MickyG's photo
Sat 02/14/09 12:35 AM
F&L I see you a close brother that we may be more alike then the posts tend to show. The point I was hoping to bring out was the fact that one cannot come out with some arguement that one person knows all, we are all individuals and should we all ever dispose of that idea, who are we really but mere numbers.

no photo
Sat 02/14/09 12:53 AM
do you have man hands????huh