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| Topic: Losing or Deleting Friends | |
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Much like real life, we all have friend's and some of them may part and
go a seperate way, for whatever reason. We all have some friend's that just don't get along or dislike eachother. Do you stop being someone's friend in real life if two friend's don't get along? Do you delete a friend online if some of your friend's don't get along with eachother? Or, do you just keep being friend's, respecting their differences and they respecting your's and remain friends? |
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hey, jane, i've noticed something. if a friend deactivates their
account, they don't show up in your list until they've reactivated. |
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To me friendship is unconditional, so I don't care if my friends have
friends I don't get on with and I would never delete anyone for that reason 
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noone should make their friends pay for something...
that isn't their fault... having friends is a blessing... and everyone should treat their friends with respect... cuz they deserve it... |
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I agree with Invisible, Jane. My friends are my friends. I would not
quit being friends with someone because other friends didn't like them. |
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Very true Lori....but you can tell if someone is deactivated or not.
And you're right invisible...at least that's how I see it, in real life or online. |
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Nope !
My friends have friends that I do not care for, and vise-versa. I love my friends for who they are not for who they hang with + they see things I don't so hey..... No one agrees on everything...... Same applies to friends and their boyfriend & girlfriends, we may not like them either but we still love the person who chose the mate we don't like. |
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Its like saying a vegitarian can't be friends with a meetlover.
Thats what makes us unique individuals,we are allowed to agree to disagree and we don't ALL have to like the same things. Life is mundane enough without having everyone being on the same page don't ya think,I sure do. |
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"Its like saying a vegitarian can't be friends with a meetlover."
I agree girl... |
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to answer the OP, it depends on the situation. i rarely would, unless
one friend did something that is bad enough that i don't want them in my life anymore...and that would be MY feeling, not because they screwed up with another friend. |
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In real life, I have been put in the middle of two friend's who didn't
get along. One insisting I not continue being friend's with the other, because they had a falling out. Was difficult because the one would always diss the other and complain if I hung out with them and soon they started ignoring me because I continued being the other's friend. I eventually lost that friend, a 12 year friendship, for staying friends with the one they didn't get along with anymore. |
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With every step we make, we stand before a fork on the road and we have
the choice which way to take. It's our choice and nobody should be concerned with our choice unless it directly harms him. |
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I agree tant and star. I don't make friends or delete friend's based on
who they hang with or have a falling out with. If someone has said or did something that bothered me, I would email them or at least try to talk before deleting, unless it was really horrific. But, sometimes that not possible I guess. Been deleted for something I have said, didn't say, not agreeing with someone, for being friend's with someone that is not liked..... |
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they weren't your real friends Jane...
if they just deleted you... for doing nothing wrong... don't worry about it... you will make new friends... and those friends who stay... are the ones that truly love you... and care about you... |
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hey jane and stef have a great day and cheri too!
 Gotta go to work..... |
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you too hun...take care
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i'm here
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Guess that could be true styx. Maybe I'm just a knob and they don't
like me, lol. Was wondering how other's felt about that topic and what they do, when they have friend's that don't get along. |
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Jane, seems like your friend has some control issues. I have lots of
friends that can't mix. Walked both sides of the tracks all my life. Firm believer in judge not. Good friends both ways. People tell me I shouldn't associate w/someone, listen to their opinion, say that's interesting, but I will make my own choices. They are not a real friend if they try to control. Styx glad to see ya still here. |
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I like you friend...
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