You are correct. I feel there is someone out there for everyone. We are built for mating.

Everybody finds different things physically atractive, 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder'

personally, i can't get physical with a woman that i don't find physically attractive. i'm not saying she needs to be a 10, but at least a 7.

well i'm ugly as sin but i have a saying

"if you're going to get married,be the ugly one"

or the fat one.

i have found my self looing at certin women that i would of not considered befor ,,,an i can't understand why

It depends. I mean, I'd be lying if I said that it doesn't matter. I do have standards (in terms of looks), but for the right person, are definitely relaxed. Even then, she has to be minimally attractive.

I've dated quite a few people to whom, initially, I had no physical attraction yet, as we dated, they became more and more handsome to me.

however, I don't think I could take someone that I was repulsed by and thought was ugly.

All I know is when you look at someone they won't always lite your fire instantly. But then they talk to you softly, or put their hand on yours at just the right moment, maybe look into your eyes and they just transform to the most georgeous person you have ever seen. Chemistry is not only about looks it's about intensity, and tempo,and style.

opps double post

Love sees light

There has to be something that makes you look twice in the first place...but looks aren't the only thing that makes up the "chemistry" of attraction, either.

I totally agree with this statement. I've dated men who were not at all attractive, but yet to me they were adorable. Intelligence is a huge chemistry factor for me, as is effective communication of knowledge. I'm into teeth and mouths in general, and if that is appealing to me then that has more importance than height or weight... etc.

So personality is really key. We've all met people and thought... mehh. But as we get to know them their inner beauty shines through and totally replaces the outer shell. At least for me it works that way. A person with whom I can talk for hours and it feels like 10 minutes, that is attractive.

I want a new chemisty set.

I like attractive women

Sometimes looks is not the first thing you notice in a person but the more you know them and discover the wonderful person they are the more attractive they are.

Anyway for me when I'm in love she is beautiful whatever anybody else thinks of her it's only what I see that counts.

Well looks get u in the door. But u can't just go by looks alone or else u will be hella unhappy. Anyone go out and say hey yeah let's talk about her brain? Do u know geometry? Looks aren't everything but they're important. Just look at Magazines and tv.

Maybe you should consider being good friends only. Some people are attractive to certain people and not to others. I would want to be with someone that is attractive to me, even if others do not think that person may be attractive. If you think about not having sex now, you will have a major problem down the road.

When you are not attracted to them physically, but they are attractive in all other areas--they are called friends. I think you have to be attracted to them physically too. I would not want to be with someone who was not attracted to me
physically.

I tried to deny it but I realize now that physical attraction is important to me