A new person on the site asks:

Can you give me some pointers about this site and online dating?

Your answer would be....


Mine would be...

Don't expect your emails to be answered

Don't expect to find "the one" any time soon (or at all for that matter)

Get involved with the forums, but don't be surprised if you ask a question and the answer isn't exactly what you liked to hear or if you reply to a post and you get ridiculed for stating your opinion (cause not everyone is going to agree with you)

Yes there are actually women on here who do like "nice" guys and not all of us women on here are cold, heartless, money hungry B!tches

or

Yes, there are actually "nice" guys on this site who are not self-centered, lying, only after one thing, jerks.

And last but not least, you are handsome enough, beautiful enough, hot enough, (or any other wonderful adjective you want to apply to yourself) for everyone on the site to like you.

i would tell them to not take the site seriously, be light hearted about it and enjoy the functions offered... including the mutual match (stop hatin!) lol

i'd hate to discourage someone from here.

you get out of it what you put into it.......minus 3%

Well damn, that puts me in the negative.

Don't try to be someone your not. Lying about things only makes you look like an ass in the end. (no pun intended).

mingle "the time vampire"

Run! These beasts will tear you to shreds with their fangs of almight hell! Run fast!

I would have to say I agree with mscarmen, I get less the 1% response on emails I send out, I'm nice, polite, personable and nothing! Lol oh well, guess those people are not for me. But I have enjoyed conversation with mscarmen. And a few others. Ok...now I'm just rambling, ramble ramble ramble!

Yeah, but you're a great rambler!

Well thank you! Ramble ramble ramble, ping pong blopp ramble....that's rambling with them there sound effect thingys, LOL