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Topic: Followers and leaders
vanstone's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:33 PM
pitty so quick to judge

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:35 PM
What makes you think I'm judging you?

vanstone's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:36 PM
I can just sense it

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:40 PM
I don't even know you, so how could I judge you?

vanstone's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:41 PM
falsely

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:43 PM
Okay, enough beating around the bush. Just say what you have to say and get it over with.

vanstone's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:45 PM
i'm sorry in all reality i have nothing to say just a worried man with a worried mind trying to pass some time. and testing your waters so to speak

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:46 PM

Which one are you?

Do you go with the flow or speak your mind?

I think I am somewhere in the middle I will go with the flow as long as it doesn't encroach on my personal ethics then I am more than able to stand on my own.
I also believe that there are ways to say things and there are ways not to say things.

I basically do my own thing and if you happen to be going my way you are welome to come along

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 02/08/09 06:49 PM


Which one are you?

Do you go with the flow or speak your mind?

I think I am somewhere in the middle I will go with the flow as long as it doesn't encroach on my personal ethics then I am more than able to stand on my own.
I also believe that there are ways to say things and there are ways not to say things.

I basically do my own thing and if you happen to be going my way you are welome to come along


I agree, but I tend to be the type to just say exactly how I feel about the matter, without paying much attention to tactfulness. Tactfulness is definitely not one of my strongest qualities, lol.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 02/08/09 07:01 PM
Depends on the situation and the trust I have in the person I am dealing with. A real leader has to know when to follow. Sometimes it is a releif to follow.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 02/08/09 07:15 PM
Actually I'm a bit of both at times I will follower others but.........then I have no problem in voicing my opinion. And when I feel that I'm right I'm not one to back down.

Pretty much one that does what I want to when I want to. I do not have to have others around to show me how to do anything I will figure it out myself.

Actually I prefer to do things myself have never been a clingy person or one that needs someone to go ahead of me.

If in fact it is something that I want to do or tackle I don't need to wait for anyone to go ahead of me first I will in fact figure it out or at least give it my best shot. bigsmile

But then at times I do know when to stand back and watch and observe as well.

no photo
Sun 02/08/09 07:20 PM
Its all different, in different situations......

Sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow...biggrin

no photo
Sun 02/08/09 07:21 PM

Which one are you?

Do you go with the flow or speak your mind?


I'm more of an isolationist.



_Amanda_'s photo
Sun 02/08/09 07:29 PM
Im usually stuck being the leader, even when Im trying to be a follower; the leader just ends up trying to get everyone to do something stupid...but then again Ive had my bright ideas too, like putting Joy into the hot tub..pitchfork

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