Topic: 150 or More?
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Sun 02/08/09 10:27 AM

So If i said Ive had sex with approximately 150 women or more. Would that make me a bad guy? A Braggart? Lost? A Hero?
The reason im asking is becuase i just recetly took that comparative test on Mingle here asked by the Mods. Im being honest here at 150 and that seems way way over the norm.
Just curious.
:heart: drinker I call THAT, HONEST!!!!!


And on THIS NET,,,,,HONESTY comes at ya like PULLING A TOOTH for MOST!

So I think YOUR at least an HONEST dude to be able to ASK or SPEAK your truth here.

And with THAT, wink,lol
I have about the SAME track record as you. But then again I have LIVED LIFE ALOT longer than you,lol.
Almost all of mine was very LONG agao..But THATS still about and a PART of me and WHO I am NOW...

I hope you have great success at meeting some friends on here and finding a lady that can accept YOU for being YOU!

And also,,little foot note here,lol
DON'T EXPECT THAT SAME HONESTY with the ladies here or in life.
Because MEN, have used THAT honesty against them in life. THEY(MOST) will never speak their truth or past.
Most just say,,THAT WAS BEFORE US,,and the PAST is THE PAST!
just a head's up on life here man.drinker

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Sun 02/08/09 10:27 AM




Actually, how many is irrelevant. It is the attitude that goes along with the number. The OP has basically identified himself as someone who is unable to commit and therefore, in my opinion, not a suitable date. You seem to have your whole identity wrapped up in your lack of sexual partners as you bring it up continually and you refer to women as sluts. That makes you undateable, in my book.


i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut. you seem to take offense to that term. do you have an issue? are you unhappy with the number of men you've been with?

i know who i am and what i am. i also know what my hang ups are. my identity is not wrapped in my lack of partners but rather in my non cavalier attitude toward finding a partner.

obviously the OP is someone that women are drawn to. and because of this it's easy for him to be confident. while you women may not agree with his exploits, in the male community he is revered for his conquests. whereas men like me are ignored in both the male and female communities.


The OP said he never said no. If any of us women never said no, it wouldn't be that hard to find many sexual partners.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:27 AM




Actually, how many is irrelevant. It is the attitude that goes along with the number. The OP has basically identified himself as someone who is unable to commit and therefore, in my opinion, not a suitable date. You seem to have your whole identity wrapped up in your lack of sexual partners as you bring it up continually and you refer to women as sluts. That makes you undateable, in my book.


i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut. you seem to take offense to that term. do you have an issue? are you unhappy with the number of men you've been with?

i know who i am and what i am. i also know what my hang ups are. my identity is not wrapped in my lack of partners but rather in my non cavalier attitude toward finding a partner.

obviously the OP is someone that women are drawn to. and because of this it's easy for him to be confident. while you women may not agree with his exploits, in the male community he is revered for his conquests. whereas men like me are ignored in both the male and female communities.
Now that I can agree with. Well said. But if women are ignoring men like you, based on the # of women you have been with, you are meeting the wrong women.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:30 AM


beginners count and fools tell

Yeah, but for some reason I just dont care at this point.
Not a beginer for sure. Foolish, probably. Honest, yep. Socially wrong to talk about it? Matter of opinion. Will it be my only mistake? Nah. :smile:


i have no problem with you bringing it up. but the problem is that you should have known going in that the women would not approve and that the men would not be able to approve because they would be ostracized by the women for being pigs and applauding your behavior.

more power to you man. you've succeeded where i've failed.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:31 AM
Hmmmmmmmmmm another notch in his belt....I try to stay away from man hoes!!!noway

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 02/08/09 10:32 AM

i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut.


Go back and read your post.

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 02/08/09 10:34 AM





Actually, how many is irrelevant. It is the attitude that goes along with the number. The OP has basically identified himself as someone who is unable to commit and therefore, in my opinion, not a suitable date. You seem to have your whole identity wrapped up in your lack of sexual partners as you bring it up continually and you refer to women as sluts. That makes you undateable, in my book.


i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut. you seem to take offense to that term. do you have an issue? are you unhappy with the number of men you've been with?

i know who i am and what i am. i also know what my hang ups are. my identity is not wrapped in my lack of partners but rather in my non cavalier attitude toward finding a partner.

obviously the OP is someone that women are drawn to. and because of this it's easy for him to be confident. while you women may not agree with his exploits, in the male community he is revered for his conquests. whereas men like me are ignored in both the male and female communities.


The OP said he never said no. If any of us women never said no, it wouldn't be that hard to find many sexual partners.


How many of those women really exist? Maybe four? :laughing:

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Sun 02/08/09 10:35 AM


So If i said Ive had sex with approximately 150 women or more. Would that make me a bad guy? A Braggart? Lost? A Hero?
The reason im asking is becuase i just recetly took that comparative test on Mingle here asked by the Mods. Im being honest here at 150 and that seems way way over the norm.
Just curious.
:heart: drinker I call THAT, HONEST!!!!!


And on THIS NET,,,,,HONESTY comes at ya like PULLING A TOOTH for MOST!

So I think YOUR at least an HONEST dude to be able to ASK or SPEAK your truth here.

And with THAT, wink,lol
I have about the SAME track record as you. But then again I have LIVED LIFE ALOT longer than you,lol.
Almost all of mine was very LONG agao..But THATS still about and a PART of me and WHO I am NOW...

I hope you have great success at meeting some friends on here and finding a lady that can accept YOU for being YOU!

And also,,little foot note here,lol
DON'T EXPECT THAT SAME HONESTY with the ladies here or in life.
Because MEN, have used THAT honesty against them in life. THEY(MOST) will never speak their truth or past.
Most just say,,THAT WAS BEFORE US,,and the PAST is THE PAST!
just a head's up on life here man.drinker

Well the Cats out of the bag now for sure.
Thanks for your insightful comment. Im alot more respectful of relations these days and therefore do not jump at every opportunity. Compatability over lust now.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:36 AM

74Drew's photo
Sun 02/08/09 10:36 AM

But if women are ignoring men like you, based on the # of women you have been with, you are meeting the wrong women.


i wouldn't say that i'm being ignored because of my #'s. but no one wants what no one else wants.


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Sun 02/08/09 10:39 AM
1, 10, 100, 1000 who cares, satisfying a woman sexually is not the road to happiness it is only temporary and sex will go at one point and then your only left with memories.

The hard part is to satisfy her emotionally and intellectually and if you can achieve the three then you can live happily ever after.

I don't need to satisfy millions I only want to fulfill one.

74Drew's photo
Sun 02/08/09 10:40 AM

men are easier to please. we prefer to not be with sluts. how few isn't important, only too many.

i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut.


Go back and read your post.


i just said that we don't want to be with sluts. you make it sound like there is no such thing. we all know there are, in both genders.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:44 AM

1, 10, 100, 1000 who cares, satisfying a woman sexually is not the road to happiness it is only temporary and sex will go at one point and then your only left with memories.

The hard part is to satisfy her emotionally and intellectually and if you can achieve the three then you can live happily ever after.

I don't need to satisfy millions I only want to fulfill one.


Well said.flowerforyou

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Sun 02/08/09 10:44 AM


men are easier to please. we prefer to not be with sluts. how few isn't important, only too many.

i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut.


Go back and read your post.


i just said that we don't want to be with sluts. you make it sound like there is no such thing. we all know there are, in both genders.


My point is that in the two days I have read your posts you have referred to women as having "fvcked away their youth", "leftovers" and now "sluts". You are entitled to your opinion, but again it goes back to your attitude. When you post in these forums you are making your attitude about women, dating and, most importantly, yourself known to possible matches. You appear to have a very bitter attitude towards all three. It's not attractive. But, that's just my opinion. good luck to you.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:45 AM



men are easier to please. we prefer to not be with sluts. how few isn't important, only too many.

i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut.


Go back and read your post.


i just said that we don't want to be with sluts. you make it sound like there is no such thing. we all know there are, in both genders.


My point is that in the two days I have read your posts you have referred to women as having "fvcked away their youth", "leftovers" and now "sluts". You are entitled to your opinion, but again it goes back to your attitude. When you post in these forums you are making your attitude about women, dating and, most importantly, yourself known to possible matches. You appear to have a very bitter attitude towards all three. It's not attractive. But, that's just my opinion. good luck to you.


To me he comes over like the fox with the sour grapes.

I think it's an attitude problem.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:46 AM
I think this thread would have gone an entirely different direction if I, or any other woman had posted having had sex with 150 or more men.

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Sun 02/08/09 10:47 AM

So If i said Ive had sex with approximately 150 women or more. Would that make me a bad guy? A Braggart? Lost? A Hero?
The reason im asking is becuase i just recetly took that comparative test on Mingle here asked by the Mods. Im being honest here at 150 and that seems way way over the norm.
Just curious.


I don't think a raw number makes anybody anything.

I've been with a fair number of people -- though not as many as you have -- and it means nothing, really, because none of them are still around.



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Sun 02/08/09 10:49 AM
I slept with 5, but I move to have 2 eliminated from my record as I was under the influence...well, with that reasoning I can have all 5 removed. So I have slept with 0 women.smokin

74Drew's photo
Sun 02/08/09 10:49 AM



My point is that in the two days I have read your posts you have referred to women as having "fvcked away their youth", "leftovers" and now "sluts". You are entitled to your opinion, but again it goes back to your attitude. When you post in these forums you are making your attitude about women, dating and, most importantly, yourself known to possible matches. You appear to have a very bitter attitude towards all three. It's not attractive. But, that's just my opinion. good luck to you.


i've looked around the forums and there are no possible matches for me here. therefore, i can be free to speak my mind without reservation.

Drago01's photo
Sun 02/08/09 10:50 AM


1, 10, 100, 1000 who cares, satisfying a woman sexually is not the road to happiness it is only temporary and sex will go at one point and then your only left with memories.

The hard part is to satisfy her emotionally and intellectually and if you can achieve the three then you can live happily ever after.

I don't need to satisfy millions I only want to fulfill one.


Well said.flowerforyou


I liked it too. Fulfillment for both.