i look around and it is so targeted twords the
man to buy something a token so to speak for the woman.....i myself beleive that you should share your love all yr long... its very hard for a woman to think of a token gift of appreciation for their man on valentines day...


so heres the question... Men what do you think is romantic to recieve on Valentines Day?

Or women what have you given your special valentine on valentines day that they seemed to really like?

Cherry pie...

I personally boycott this day. I feel if you truly love someone, you should show it everyday. Otherwise you should really reconsider who you are with.

Lots of attention and some affection

I want love everyday all year but there is nothing wrong in doing something special on V Day, for me as long as it's not an usual everyday thing and coming from her heart I will be happy.

I'm sure I'm not alone when I say, that while I appreciate your honesty and candor and even your point of view on this matter, If a man took this attitude towards Valentine's Day, alone-on-the-couch would be the best of all possible situations in which he could hope to find himself sleeping that night...

I speak from personal experience...

so an idea? lol i agree should be everyday.. but if you dont have an aniversary with the guy you are with.. and many women dont so a token would be nice... ive ran into this problem in the past and i know lots of women have so give us women some ideas?

that is true but should be this way for the man too... so ideas?

sex always works for me or a 12" dewalt compound/radial saw

oh yeah, cool thread ,buttons

a steak dinner and a BJ??

Is that really something special for Valentine's day?

or any day.. but it works for V-Day just fine..

I would giVe him MEEEEE covred in STRAWBERRYS!

Food and Sex.
Yes its that simple

I always personally try to be original and not ask what she wants so i expect the same from her, if she can't think of something on her own and I have to tell her what i would like then it is not really a special gift.

I'd rather save a special gift for something that's special. Valentine's day isn't really special.

Well I like to be different so I have done a few different special things for my love on Valentines Day.




I made a sex coupon book and he could use them whenever, wherever he wanted.

Pretty much a any man's dream book




Another one

I took a basket and filled with different kinds of exotic beer, and manly man treats. I left it in his car so when he went out in the morning it was waiting...It was so fun to watch from the window and him looking at it all.

Good ideas Deb.

thanks doll....


and for the woman daring and unafraid






I left a note on the back door and sent him on a scavenger hunt......with each clue was a piece of clothing...He ending up not in the bedroom like you may think but in the kitchen where all I had on was a lil silk apron and of course a full course meal....with me as desert

I woke up and took a shower and when I got out there was a huge note on the mirror telling me how much she cared, loved me, that I was all she ever wanted in a man, and how she was so lucky. That was all I needed. Until...

Two months later she was sleeping with another man...

So words are just that... words...

If you want to show me you care just be loyal and tell me how much you care every day. Holidays are over rated. If you really love someone that should be showed everyday you are together. That means pulling the chair out, opening doors, showering them with compliments, massages, and walking hand in hand no matter where you are.

If you aren't receiving those things then something is wrong and you better talk about it before things get worse. There is usually something a miss if affection isn't consistent. No smile and you think things are okay? Stop kidding yourself.