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Topic: I keep telling myself......
beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 02/04/09 08:39 PM
JUST SIX MORE MONTHS!!! I made a very STUPID choice of letting my ex move in six months ago to be my roomate. At the time I thought the good outweighed the bad. I would have help with the rent and utilites and also get my older two children living with me again in the same house. LITTLE DID I KNOW my daughter had joined the ARMY which I am really proud of her now, but if I had known I would not of not made the decision I did. My ex told my son's 20 year old friend that he could move in too!!! I love him like he was my own, but he has taken my car on two occasions WITHOUT my PERMISSION and used it all day!!! Leaving me WITHOUT A CAR! The first time I thought someone had stolen my car. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I am at my boiling point. Then I'm wondering why my electric and gas bills are 50 dollars higher. He is he is putting the heat 10 degrees higher and the AC ten degrees lower than what I set it on. FOUND THIS OUT TONIGHT. I AM PISSED!!! My Ex thinks he can touch me in a sexual way. He thinks he can talk to me however he wants and tell me what to do. He has anger issues and he weighs on my nerves! I know I have to live with the choice I made, but boy have I learned and I won't be so stupid the next time! I am a nice person....way to nice~! I REGRET my stupid choice to let him move in! SIX MORE MONTHS I keep telling myself!

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Wed 02/04/09 08:41 PM
Hang in there...You made the choice

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 02/04/09 08:43 PM
Beauty....I love ya doll...I respect you too. You are a good woman. That being said. Your first sentence of your post pretty much covers everything here.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 02/04/09 08:44 PM
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah, don't do it

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 02/04/09 08:45 PM
Beauty....I love ya doll...I respect you too. You are a good woman. That being said. Your first sentence of your post pretty much covers everything here. Yea, it does. I just needed someone to read how stupid I was and maybe someone who might be thinking of doing this will read this and think twice.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 02/04/09 08:47 PM
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah, don't do it I'm gonna poke you in the eye.

johncarl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 5074	Wed 02/04/09 08:47 PM
omg you are in a bad thing hey.so in 6 months he is gone. it sounds like you should get him out sooner,you need your life back.i am trying to do that to in court in the am.it is a long road to freedom

rlynne Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 2458	Wed 02/04/09 08:47 PM
JUST SIX MORE MONTHS!!! I made a very STUPID choice of letting my ex move in six months ago to be my roomate. At the time I thought the good outweighed the bad. I would have help with the rent and utilites and also get my older two children living with me again in the same house. LITTLE DID I KNOW my daughter had joined the ARMY which I am really proud of her now, but if I had known I would not of not made the decision I did. My ex told my son's 20 year old friend that he could move in too!!! I love him like he was my own, but he has taken my car on two occasions WITHOUT my PERMISSION and used it all day!!! Leaving me WITHOUT A CAR! The first time I thought someone had stolen my car. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I am at my boiling point. Then I'm wondering why my electric and gas bills are 50 dollars higher. He is he is putting the heat 10 degrees higher and the AC ten degrees lower than what I set it on. FOUND THIS OUT TONIGHT. I AM PISSED!!! My Ex thinks he can touch me in a sexual way. He thinks he can talk to me however he wants and tell me what to do. He has anger issues and he weighs on my nerves! I know I have to live with the choice I made, but boy have I learned and I won't be so stupid the next time! I am a nice person....way to nice~! I REGRET my stupid choice to let him move in! SIX MORE MONTHS I keep telling myself! I feel ya, nice finds a way of coming back and bitting you in the butt, you'll get through it....and next time you know better

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 02/04/09 08:48 PM
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah, don't do it I'm gonna poke you in the eye. Kinky...no pain no gain...I get to poke you back

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 02/04/09 08:52 PM
omg you are in a bad thing hey.so in 6 months he is gone. it sounds like you should get him out sooner,you need your life back.i am trying to do that to in court in the am.it is a long road to freedom I don't want to leave on bad terms. We were good friends until he moved in. I will just ride it out. I'm a good ignorer and I will hide my keys and put a lock box on the thermostat. Good luck to you

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 02/04/09 08:52 PM
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah, don't do it I'm gonna poke you in the eye. Kinky...no pain no gain...I get to poke you back promises promises

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 02/04/09 08:52 PM Edited by krupa on Wed 02/04/09 08:54 PM
Forget 6 months... 2 weeks...get him out. He ain't gonna force himself out...(especially if you are a sexual option) I am not close enough to shoot him with rat shot in the @ss tonight. I hate to say it...you gotta drop an ultimatum on him... "Get out" or "Get the Hell out before I go psychotic on you while you sleep" ...ya gotta give him the option of saving himself...

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Wed 02/04/09 08:53 PM
That sounds familiar. Didn't you post about it when you were thinking of letting him move in? Those types of choices are always risky.

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Wed 02/04/09 08:56 PM
<---------Try that. Might make you feel better.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 02/04/09 08:57 PM
That sounds familiar. Didn't you post about it when you were thinking of letting him move in? Those types of choices are always risky. Yea, I posted about it before I let him move in. Women don't listen! lol

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Wed 02/04/09 08:57 PM
Krupa's right.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 02/04/09 08:58 PM
I am a nice person....way to nice~! I REGRET my stupid choice to let him move in! SIX MORE MONTHS I keep telling myself! You have the option to file an eviction notice on him, fwiw. He's only an occupant, right? Also, and as for sexual advances, being nice about it may well not be an option. Call me a skeptic but this very kind of situation is why I question a woman carefully when she says she has an ex. Many of the women in this county accumulate non-ex ex's.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 02/04/09 08:59 PM
<---------Try that. Might make you feel better. I've been doing alot of that.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 02/04/09 09:00 PM
omg you are in a bad thing hey.so in 6 months he is gone. it sounds like you should get him out sooner,you need your life back.i am trying to do that to in court in the am.it is a long road to freedom I don't want to leave on bad terms. We were good friends until he moved in. I will just ride it out. I'm a good ignorer and I will hide my keys and put a lock box on the thermostat. Good luck to you It's amazing what one could learn from the dictionary. 1913 Webster's dictionary on "Rationalization" "Finding an acceptable reason for unacceptable behavior, and unacceptable behavior is a form of insanity". Feeling sane?

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 02/04/09 09:01 PM
<---------Try that. Might make you feel better. I've been doing alot of that. Use his head instead. Give him the headache for a change.