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Topic: Mean an abusive people
Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 02:11 AM
Thats a very good point. but wat about the ones who dont live with their boyfriends?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 02/04/09 02:13 AM
Thats a very good point. but wat about the ones who dont live with their boyfriends? low self esteem

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 02/04/09 02:16 AM
this kind of stuff really pisses me off i'm a good guy and can't find what i'm looking for. then you have guys out there that don't deserve to have a woman because they just beat the sh1t out of them and the women stay with them. this world is fvcked up.

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Wed 02/04/09 02:21 AM
They have been allowed to be bully's all their lives so why would they change when there is no one big enough around to stop them? Sad fact is now days it is not that uncommon for women to be equally abusive toward husband's. YES! VERY true, Pacific...I am a statistic of that myself!

Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 02:24 AM
Drew my friend once again u hit the nail on the head. its a dam shame. good guys like us who would treat a lady rite are gettin a bum wrap.

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Wed 02/04/09 02:25 AM
Drew my friend once again u hit the nail on the head. its a dam shame. good guys like us who would treat a lady rite are gettin a bum wrap. Yeah! AND when you treat a lady nice....she turns around and beats the living S*** out of you... How messed up is that??

Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 02:30 AM
Spaceman u seem like a nice guy. y would she beat u up? i know women can b abusive too but u dont hear that side often...

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Wed 02/04/09 02:40 AM
Spaceman u seem like a nice guy. y would she beat u up? i know women can b abusive too but u dont hear that side often... Thanks...she has anger management issues....blows me away how mean and cruel some people can be...I had to file a domestic violence report on her...

Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 02:45 AM
Dam i am sorry 2 hear that. how long have u 2 been 2gether an when did all this start? if u dont mind sharing or u can email me

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 02/04/09 02:50 AM
Ive talked 2 several girls who say they have been abused by their boyfriends and that makes me upset. why would a guy do that? i just dont understand. i know this is a sensitive subject so pls keep that n mind As far as I've found, it is little man syndrome...they won't talk to me like that, but given the chance alone with their girlfriend they will have at it. I don't care for it, and when I witness it I do something about it...but that is treading water, as I have to witness it because there are too many variations of the truth.

Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 02:55 AM
Its uncalled 4 . i gues they think it proves they r a man 2 their girlfriend or wife. but n truth if only they would realize that their words could easily do that

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Wed 02/04/09 03:03 AM
Ive talked 2 several girls who say they have been abused by their boyfriends and that makes me upset. why would a guy do that? i just dont understand. i know this is a sensitive subject so pls keep that n mind he has a teeny little pee pee...so he's mad at the world...but on the other hand...some women enjoy being punching bags...it the whole damsel in distress thing...

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Wed 02/04/09 03:06 AM
Dam i am sorry 2 hear that. how long have u 2 been 2gether an when did all this start? if u dont mind sharing or u can email me We were married for 4 years...she was abusive the whole time....begged her to go to counseling, she refused....it came to a head and she beat me....

MahanMahan Joined Wed 01/21/09 Posts: 5844	Wed 02/04/09 03:13 AM
I read the title and assumed it was about my family. LOL

Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 03:13 AM
Dam thats tough. how r things now tho? i hope they have gotten better

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Wed 02/04/09 03:16 AM
Dam thats tough. how r things now tho? i hope they have gotten better A little...its hard because my son is involved....

Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 03:23 AM
I was about 2 say that. when children r involved it makes me even more upset because of wat it does to them

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Wed 02/04/09 03:26 AM
Yeah...its really messsed up!

Hotguitarguy Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 353	Wed 02/04/09 03:31 AM
Are u going 2 try an work it out? cuz i know divorce is tough on kids

Shadylady131 Joined Wed 12/31/08 Posts: 483	Wed 02/04/09 03:38 AM
The thing about these "violent" guys is this........alot of them hide the fact that they are like this.....until its too late and you are already "in love" with them. Then it becomes complicated.....where you either think its your fault or it would be a 1 time thing. But it never is....... Ahhhhh..mind control...its a terrible thing to live through.....amen...