Topic: ex's
jsq's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:36 PM
If a girl is meeting her ex to see his kids in a hotel room, do u think she is messing around. He has a shady past and she doesn't trust him alone with the kids and he is in from 13hrs away. what do u think lol

RKISIT's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:39 PM
i think they are going to make more babies:smile:

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:39 PM
Don't jump to conclusions.

If he's from that far away and isn't staying with family, then it make sense for them to meet at the hotel room.


Besides, even if he makes a pass at her, doesn't mean she'll reciprocate.

jsq's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:44 PM
yeah im thinking more babies are on the way too, but trying not to

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:46 PM

yeah im thinking more babies are on the way too, but trying not to
noway

Why don't you just go ahead and accuse her of cheating now so you can break up with her and get it over with! noway

RKISIT's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:46 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Tue 02/03/09 08:49 PM

yeah im thinking more babies are on the way too, but trying not to
to be honest man i don't know how long you two have been together but i doubt they'll have sex with the kids around also ...put a little trust in someone or you'll drive yourself nuts and maybe lose a good woman...just sayin:smile:

man i'm type-o crazy tonight

oldsage's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:47 PM
Trust is YOUR choice.
You either give it or not.

jsq's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:47 PM
trying not to go that route. thats why im asking opinions

no photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:48 PM
She has said that she doesn't trust him with the kids, so that may be the reason. Maybe tell her how you feel and let her understand and show you that there isn't a thing to worry about.

Drago01's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:49 PM
Its probably his Room and after a 13 hour drive, Id be wanting a room too.
Its my guess she doesnt want him around her own house, so she brought the kids to him.
Its ok to feel insecure about it. One thing though, you have to give her some trust. She will like you alot more if you support her in this.

Etrain's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:50 PM
Ummmm...why don't you just.....go with her???what

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:52 PM
Humm she is doing just as she says trust is a very important to have with another. Without it you have nothing that you will be able to build on solid ground.

Unless she is one that is known to do things in front of her kids then I would say too much is being read into it. If not and the other person does not trust them it will not matter what they do for they have already judged them and sentenced them for a crime they did not commit.noway


jsq's photo
Tue 02/03/09 08:59 PM
Well most of the advice is to trust her and see what happens. Actually it is surprising to me that more people didn't think she was fooling around, but i shouldn't jump to conclusions about the situation and thanks to everyone that replied.

wezzymay's photo
Tue 02/03/09 10:20 PM
Trust in me!