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how long do you wait after sending someone a message before sending another one? or do you send another one at all?
i had this woman that was flirting back and forth with me. she suggested that we talk about arranging a meeting. i told her that we should learn a bit about each other and sent her my stats. that was like 4 or 5 days ago and now nothing except a comment on my myspace blog. i don't know if she forgot that i sent her a message or if she just lost interest or what. so, do i write her another message or just move on? |
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write her another message
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You are thinking with the mindset of limited resources, you have to think about it as if you could have a different woman every night, then how would you respond to her, is she really that important?
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I'd write again...
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Has she been online? maybe she is busy- just send her a brief message- saying something like- haven't seen you on line just checking up on you- are you ok?
see what she says but in the meantime- keep looking-don't put all your eggs in one basket 
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she's definitely been online, she posted a comment on my blog.
she had mentioned something about getting together for v-day but it's getting down to the wire when it comes to making plans. |
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It's tempting to get anxious when you're interested in an internet woman and she wants to meet you.
Messaging again after a week to someone you've only recently made acquaintance with is reasonable. I wouldn't get too worked up about her, though. It's a bad way to start things off. |
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i don't want to come across as a stalker or something.
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how long do you wait after sending someone a message before sending another one? or do you send another one at all? i had this woman that was flirting back and forth with me. she suggested that we talk about arranging a meeting. i told her that we should learn a bit about each other and sent her my stats. that was like 4 or 5 days ago and now nothing except a comment on my myspace blog. i don't know if she forgot that i sent her a message or if she just lost interest or what. so, do i write her another message or just move on? If you wanna message her, then message her. That's all there is to it. We live in a multi-interactive society nowadays- we have cell phones, IM, email, Wi-Fi, as well as a hundred other means of communication. There's simply no excuse to NOT get in contact with someone, unless you DIDN'T want to get in contact with them. |
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how long do you wait after sending someone a message before sending another one? or do you send another one at all? i had this woman that was flirting back and forth with me. she suggested that we talk about arranging a meeting. i told her that we should learn a bit about each other and sent her my stats. that was like 4 or 5 days ago and now nothing except a comment on my myspace blog. i don't know if she forgot that i sent her a message or if she just lost interest or what. so, do i write her another message or just move on? If you wanna message her, then message her. That's all there is to it. We live in a multi-interactive society nowadays- we have cell phones, IM, email, Wi-Fi, as well as a hundred other means of communication. There's simply no excuse to NOT get in contact with someone, unless you DIDN'T want to get in contact with them. cheers to that...go ahead and message.. if you still don't get a response.. then move on but wait too long and its does send the impression that you no longer have interest.... |
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ok, point made.
we'll see what happens. |
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If you are both in agreement to meeting each other, then just ask her for her phone number and quit playing "email tag". If she does not want to give your her phone number, then you have some re-thinking to do.
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What stats did you send her. Percentage of your plays that make it to third base?
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I would send another message...if you don't hear back...move on
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What stats did you send her. Percentage of your plays that make it to third base? you know, hits, rbi's, hr, free throw %, assists wait a min, i don't play any sports. 
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btw, i sent the message this afternoon. i'll give it another couple of days, but i ain't holdin my breath for anything.
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stats?
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Edited by
Cinderella75
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Tue 02/03/09 07:28 PM
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write her another message..just a short one. Ask her a question, maybe something that you guys talked about in a previous conversation. Just keep it very mellow. If she does not respond, well then move on. But yes, definitely give it one last shot.
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stats? vitals. you know, heart rate, blood pressure, ldl levels, body fat %. the stuff that really matters. that's sarcasm btw. hard to convey in txt. but, you know. age, marital status, parenthood status, that sort of stuff. |
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WERE YOU wearing deodorant while emailing her????
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