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Definitely lust, not love. :)
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I really don't see anyone, male or female falling in love in one day. NO way! It takes time. Friends first, has to build into love. This is an ole timer speaking, got to be lust.
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Have any ladies here fallen that fast? ur input is greatly appreciated. i mean its great that they want 2 love an be loved but my heart cant move that fast. its like a drag race an by the time i start my engine shes already almost at the finish! In a day? Are you smokin something??  NEVAHHHH. 
 I need at LAST 36 hours to do the job properly 
drew starts his stopwatch 
yummy 
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I've had creepy guys email me or IM me and tell me they loved me pretty much right away. 
oh ya .. marriage proposals BEFORE hello, i'm yada yada .. LMAO |
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I've had creepy guys email me or IM me and tell me they loved me pretty much right away.
oh ya .. marriage proposals BEFORE hello, i'm yada yada .. LMAO I can't help but laugh when guys try this. So yeah, it's definitely not just women doing this. |
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This is kinda directed toward guys but ladies opinions r welcome. ive experienced several times that when i start talking 2 a girl i like that after a few days or day that she says that shes fallen n love with me. an its scary if they r serious! It's very scary in a "Fatal Attraction" kind of way. I went out with a man two times for dinner. We only talked. He asked me to move in. That mean run away fast!!!! Then I had moved. I found out that he found out where I had moved and was stalking me. Too fast is very scary to me!!! |
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Is it because im that loveable? lol has this ever happened 2 u? It's more because they're probably a little too nutty in the fruitcake. I'd be very leery of stuff if I were you. |
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Yea i know guys do it too. i just dont get it lol. i like 2 take my time an b thorough n those aspects
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just because it's something that hasn't ever happened to me, it doesn't mean that it can't exist, or that i don't believe it can happen.
i do know people who swear that they've fallen in love at first sight, they are still together, and they are still happy. who am i to question what they do, or don't feel? besides, i don't think love necessarily is interpreted in the exact same way by all of us and my definition may be quite different than the next guy's. |
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Edited by
Citizen_Joe
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Tue 02/03/09 11:08 AM
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This is kinda directed toward guys but ladies opinions r welcome. ive experienced several times that when i start talking 2 a girl i like that after a few days or day that she says that shes fallen n love with me. an its scary if they r serious! Look up borderline personality disorder. Then look at the flip side. Then... RUN! In all fairness, I'm sure it's quite possible to have a reasonably healthy relationship with someone suffering from their mental illness. However, it takes time, sincere love, patience and more than what 2 days offers. |
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This is kinda directed toward guys but ladies opinions r welcome. ive experienced several times that when i start talking 2 a girl i like that after a few days or day that she says that shes fallen n love with me. an its scary if they r serious! I'd do anything to have your problem. That is if I really dug them. See then I would be in control. If I didn't love them back, then owe well. Crazy? yes that is crazy to fall in love with someone on the first day. But man, I would eat that stuff up if that is how it always went down. Your ego must be going through the roof. |
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Edited by
Cinderella75
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Tue 02/03/09 07:44 PM
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I've had creepy guys email me or IM me and tell me they loved me pretty much right away.
Yes, had those "kind" too. You turned them down, and then they e-mailed me and told me the same thing!!! That freaks me out!!! To the question of the Poster of this thread: I never told a guy I love him first, although I may have. I usually wait for them to say it first. But.. Lust can easily get confused with Love. Love at first sight for instance..it's just Lust. If it was not for that little illusion every once in a while, some guys would never get laid. Just sayin' |
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Anyone that falls in "love" in 1 day is stupppppppppppppppppppppid!!!! 
Ok! But if you give me to the weekend, I'm all yours! 
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I've had creepy guys email me or IM me and tell me they loved me pretty much right away.
You too? But seeing as how the girls are from Nigeria or Ghana, well there's the answer! |
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To adamal29. my ego? i didnt think that applied. im not saying im better then they r at all. im jus me. when it comes 2 egos i n the shallow end of the dream pool
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love in a day?
Sh!t i've been dating my gf for 5 months and neither of us has said we loved each other (with the exception of one very drunk night...but that doesn't count! we laughed it off in the morning) Now lust or infatuation in a day most def.... |
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I've had creepy guys email me or IM me and tell me they loved me pretty much right away.
oh ya .. marriage proposals BEFORE hello, i'm yada yada .. LMAO i've done that.....in jest. 
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Lol drew but u seem like a good guy 2 me. i gues everyone would react differently. love at first sight? not saying it cant happen because im sure it happens 2 a lucky few. lol hasnt happened 2 me yet :p
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Have any ladies here fallen that fast? ur input is greatly appreciated. i mean its great that they want 2 love an be loved but my heart cant move that fast. its like a drag race an by the time i start my engine shes already almost at the finish! I tend to know almost immediately if it could fly or not. BUT no matter how certain I feel I take my time to be sure. I will say the great love of my life so far told his best friend that he had met the woman he was going to marry after two dances at a birthday party. I think if it is the "Real Deal" you will know. |
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 Love in a day time is the point where you
RUN!!!!
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