Well, my boyfriend of eleven years, past away the day before thanksgiviing. I still can't believe it, and I held his hand until he took his last breath. The last couple of years was really not the best in the world, but I stuck it out, he hated being alone. Then I got myself in a bind where I couldn't leave, bills were way too high. Now I have to contend with his family (money hungry, greedy, gimme, gimme, gimme). The wasn't even dead when his own mother was grabbing stuff and selling it. Strange people, a whole different story. Anyway, he left me in a financial bind, I don't think is ever going away. His family (if you can call them that) is far worse than the bill collectors. They have stripped me of everything that he and I accumilated over the eleven years. I'm in the process of getting moved out (weather not cooperating), I gave the house back to his mother, I didn't ask for anything. I'm starting over and making a life for me, with out his family, I want to be rid of those people (those people is a sterio type, but these people are in a class all by themselves). I'm starting over and I'm going to have fun, enjoy life. I'm old, time to enjoy life.

Sometimes starting over fresh is the best way to do things.


Good luck!

Hi Vac - just a little tip from one who has been there, don't look for someone to fall in love with right away, just join the group here and make new friends. They will be a fantastic support for you.

Thanks for the support. Not looking for love anytime soon. If it's meant to be, it will happen, if not "salavee". It's time to know what peace and traquility is like again. It will help getting into the new house. And I have 18 or 21 (lost count) furry critters that have been a great help to me, precious babies. And I will pretty much do what I want to do. Wait until I retire, look out world, va is on the loose. I have 1,855 days to go until retirement. Wooo Hooo,
party time.

Vac welcome!

Glad you found the 50 and over forum. Stick around and get know all the great people here. You can make some great friends. Just post away and let us get to know you.

Good luck with the move. I hope the future is kind to you.

And welcome to here.