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ok now for the positive things he discussed?....... Um, he likes to ski? |
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well looks like the negetive takes over huh? lol its one thing saying a couple of negetive things and keeping them short. But to go on and on about all the negetive things in his life is something else. Probably the way he is...
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Fri 01/30/09 07:19 AM
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set him up with my mother .. although strange two negetive people never seem to be together cause they use the energies of a positive person to keep going.
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He just went on and on and on.... I really tried to find out about him. When I asked about where he lived, it resulted in a diatribe of his mother's house and her illness and how much it cost and how sad he was. Went on for 45 minutes.
I don't even think he knows what I do for a living.... he never asked a thing about me. He wasso sad and needy. I am shocked I kept it up. Two phone calls was enough for me though, after that I kept it to e-mail. And yesterday was the finale. |
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ok now for the positive things he discussed?....... Um, he likes to ski? |
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It's it funny how a phone call can change everything! LOL
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ok now for the positive things he discussed?....... Um, he likes to ski? Oh, and ice fishing. He likes ice fishing. And doesn't watch movies, or have cable. Ya, we have loads in common. He seemed cute though, Jilly saw his pic. |
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He seemed cute though, Jilly saw his pic. He'd be cuter with duct tape over his mouth |
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Love is in the air
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It's it funny how a phone call can change everything! LOL Yes, it is. I did try though. But it was just too freaky. I was so uncomfortable, and when I told him I was uncomfortable, he explained more! |
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He seemed cute though, Jilly saw his pic. He'd be cuter with duct tape over his mouth |
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Block HIm!
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It's it funny how a phone call can change everything! LOL Yes, it is. I did try though. But it was just too freaky. I was so uncomfortable, and when I told him I was uncomfortable, he explained more! Dr. Tanya's recommendation: Total Nice Guy Syndrome with a dash of Momma's boy. Unless you want to be wiping his behind, run or scare him off! |
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It's it funny how a phone call can change everything! LOL Yes, it is. I did try though. But it was just too freaky. I was so uncomfortable, and when I told him I was uncomfortable, he explained more! Dr. Tanya's recommendation: Total Nice Guy Syndrome with a dash of Momma's boy. Unless you want to be wiping his behind, run or scare him off! |
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I wished him luck, and told him we weren't "there" yet, as we were strangers. The stuff he told me was for close intimate friends.... we'd never even met.
Maybe he will not do so again. I thought I had a shuddup problem.... no so compared to this one! |
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yikes
Shrug it off Lilith Happy Friday |
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there are male and female train wrecks who will latch onto the first person who will give them the time of day needy people are usualy a nightmare and it is best to avoid them be seeing you
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TGIF to you as well, Fran.
Already shrugged off, but posted this as I was just so sick of the same old freaking thread topics. Sorry, sad but true! |
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some things just never change
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So I was talking to this guy, a few times on the phone and mostly in e-mail. This went on several weeks. The first conversation was about the death of his mother, the size and cost of her house, his father leaving his mom right before Christmas, his probate legal battles with his father, his friend being killed by his wife poisoning him with radiator fluid, his mom's best friend not being able to make it to the funeral.... Whew! So this continued, but on top of that was his talking about money, all the time. I sent a very tactful e-mail about how uncomfortable I was about the money stuff, and I got a 2 page e-mail explaining WHY he was so stressed about money. I woulda gotten off the train back at first convo .. geesh talk about depressing. No thanks |
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