Topic: why do women
papersmile's photo
Thu 01/29/09 04:24 PM
Edited by papersmile on Thu 01/29/09 04:25 PM




sorry I even thought this might be a good question and that I didn't clarify it properly.. sure its plain and simple.... so I take the heat now.. and probably get a label in the meantime... oh well so what I won't care.


there's nothing wrong with asking a question and having it clarified (at least from someone else's perspective).

i always had problems with understanding what was meant by 'activity partner'. the addition of 'intimate encounter' helped clarify it somewhat.


I always thought activity partner meant non-romantic/non-sexual type activities.


me too *nods*

well i do too - NOW laugh

OP, most of the guys whose profiles i've perved who have listed 'looking for intimate encounter' are also married. that doesn't sound like the type of guy who's looking for an honest, sincere and loving relationship with some healthy sex attached.

Justme122's photo
Thu 01/29/09 04:30 PM
I have to say when I see nothing intimate I will pass. In my age group many women are giving up on sex either for emotional or physical reasons. They really don't like it if your getting it somewhere else. It's a deal breaker.


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Thu 01/29/09 05:33 PM
:laughing:

So, who wants to go with a woman to stand up all night?
:laughing:

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Thu 01/29/09 05:35 PM

put on their profiles that they are looking for either a relationship or a long term relationship, YET also list in there not looking for intimate encounter? isn't that going to be an issue?grumble


They're probably just wanting to make it perfectly clear that they aren't into the one-night stand kind of thing.

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Thu 01/29/09 05:41 PM
Edited by thinkingaboutit09 on Thu 01/29/09 05:42 PM
idk but almost everyone i have met on here my first impressions where often incorrect as far as the details of their character. So even if you wanted this i think you would be missing out to say the least to set boundries on who you meet. but this one the ladies set "NIC" i would consider the one exception. Besides i have never in my life met a woman that acctually has been able to do this without emotion even when they say they can.

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Thu 01/29/09 05:49 PM
Mean people suck

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/29/09 05:53 PM

Mean people suck


agreed....

"if ya can't be with the one you love honey love the one your with"


"come on people now.. smile on your brother everybody get together try to love one another right now...."

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Thu 01/29/09 05:54 PM
OH NO slaphead Me thought "no intimate encounter" meant cyber sex only
frustrated tears frustrated tears frustrated tears frustrated tears

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:05 PM
I don't want to understand the question. I'm just glad the target is not painted on my head. Eats girl scout cookies and hides in corner.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:20 PM
No. Seriously. My opinion is not the fact people state declarations that are false or misleading in their profiles, but more or less state or declare dillusional subconcious in their profiles. Ya know? Likes long walks on the beach but lives 1200 miles from the beach on a turd infested river? Or has fake boobs, fake eye color, fake nails, fake hair color- but is looking for "A real man". Or how about bragging on how many tattoos and piercings they have but doesn't like anal sex because it hurts? Its just crazy. Every profile in my area is LAME,BORING,and UNORIGINAL. Some are carbon copies of themselves. "Looking for Mr Right. Looking for a "Good man". Where's my knight in shining armour. Sorry dumbass- this isn't 16 century england and my levis don't come in tin and I left my chainmail underwear at home. A lot of f*cked up profiles on here. People say one thing in their mind- but mean something else.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:25 PM
Straight up- I wouldn't date 50% of the people on this site because they are dumber than a box of rocks. I'd like to find someone who at least knows how to tie their shoes and feed themselves.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:27 PM
Shoves more girl scout cookies in my mouth to avoid saying more.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:29 PM
Mmmmuargh blargh umph urg blurgh umph.

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Thu 01/29/09 06:33 PM

put on their profiles that they are looking for either a relationship or a long term relationship, YET also list in there not looking for intimate encounter? isn't that going to be an issue?grumble
They didnt have the mind melting suck them through the ears through telepathy option so I put down "relationsh*t"surprised

countrybelle6471's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:33 PM
saw trouble whrn I read 1st post..backing out of room..shocked

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:37 PM

No. Seriously. My opinion is not the fact people state declarations that are false or misleading in their profiles, but more or less state or declare dillusional subconcious in their profiles. Ya know? Likes long walks on the beach but lives 1200 miles from the beach on a turd infested river? Or has fake boobs, fake eye color, fake nails, fake hair color- but is looking for "A real man". Or how about bragging on how many tattoos and piercings they have but doesn't like anal sex because it hurts? Its just crazy. Every profile in my area is LAME,BORING,and UNORIGINAL. Some are carbon copies of themselves. "Looking for Mr Right. Looking for a "Good man". Where's my knight in shining armour. Sorry dumbass- this isn't 16 century england and my levis don't come in tin and I left my chainmail underwear at home. A lot of f*cked up profiles on here. People say one thing in their mind- but mean something else.
...fn awesome....

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:38 PM


No. Seriously. My opinion is not the fact people state declarations that are false or misleading in their profiles, but more or less state or declare dillusional subconcious in their profiles. Ya know? Likes long walks on the beach but lives 1200 miles from the beach on a turd infested river? Or has fake boobs, fake eye color, fake nails, fake hair color- but is looking for "A real man". Or how about bragging on how many tattoos and piercings they have but doesn't like anal sex because it hurts? Its just crazy. Every profile in my area is LAME,BORING,and UNORIGINAL. Some are carbon copies of themselves. "Looking for Mr Right. Looking for a "Good man". Where's my knight in shining armour. Sorry dumbass- this isn't 16 century england and my levis don't come in tin and I left my chainmail underwear at home. A lot of f*cked up profiles on here. People say one thing in their mind- but mean something else.
...fn awesome....


The thing is....he's right.

countrybelle6471's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:46 PM



No. Seriously. My opinion is not the fact people state declarations that are false or misleading in their profiles, but more or less state or declare dillusional subconcious in their profiles. Ya know? Likes long walks on the beach but lives 1200 miles from the beach on a turd infested river? Or has fake boobs, fake eye color, fake nails, fake hair color- but is looking for "A real man". Or how about bragging on how many tattoos and piercings they have but doesn't like anal sex because it hurts? Its just crazy. Every profile in my area is LAME,BORING,and UNORIGINAL. Some are carbon copies of themselves. "Looking for Mr Right. Looking for a "Good man". Where's my knight in shining armour. Sorry dumbass- this isn't 16 century england and my levis don't come in tin and I left my chainmail underwear at home. A lot of f*cked up profiles on here. People say one thing in their mind- but mean something else.
...fn awesome....


The thing is....he's right.


more then likely My knight will be driving a pickup truck.:banana: .and with me saying that its just my way of saying I want a romantic..a gentleman.chivalry..kindness..
I think its ok to like long walks on a beach..even if you are land locked..what about a vacation..?maybe they are just thinking..

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/29/09 07:15 PM
I don't want a knight, god forbid another crusades happens..then I'll be no better off than I am now....


I'll go for.. the farmer, the butcher, or the baker


or maybe the fisherman....




I would love an intimate encounter, however I really don't want it to be like an encounter with a UFO..you know lasts one night never see 'em again, did things ya have never done before..and everybody thinks your crazy






People are screwy, end of story, whether they know what they want, who they are, or whatever...they are all screwy

bemorelikecarlos's photo
Thu 01/29/09 07:47 PM
Pay it no mind....women can't say exactly what they want because they don't know themselves