Topic: Need advice about a dude I just met!!! | |
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Ok, so I met this guy on sunday and we ended up hanging out, going out, and spending the whole night together. We made out and that sort of thing, but nothing really sexual. He was really fun and really sweet and he said something like "we should do this every sunday" and other things that made it sound like he wanted to hang out in the future. The next morning he left before I woke up and I texted him and asked him what time he left and hope he had a good day. In the text he wrote back "let me know when you're bored again haha especially during the day"
Does this mean he actually wants to hang out and if so what's with the "especially during the day" thing...or is this just one of those things guys say when they're being nice but they really have no intention of seeing you again? I've heard a lot of those, but I'm not sure about this one. |
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he's just stating a preference - perhaps he's just more available during the day
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I think it means he does not want any kind of lasting relationship, but just a sexual thing... although, who the hell really knows? lol
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That's a tough one, it's sounds like there is more to the story
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Thu 01/29/09 09:08 AM
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Maybe FWB. - Sounds sad.
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that is a strange thing to reply back to you... almost sounds as if he has somewhere else he is supposed to be at night.. hummm
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Yeah it sounds like he does not want to waste his nights with someone who does not "put out".
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i wouldn't look too deep into it
just give it a few days then casually ask him to 'hang out' again |
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sounds like hes got to be home at night if you know what i mean
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he is saying for you to call him when you are bored and want to jump his bone (funny bone)
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Ask him?
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sounds like hes got to be home at night if you know what i mean most of you women think about the worst! |
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Well if you girls that are saying "maybe he has somewhere to be at night" are implying that he's like married or something...gah that would be bad. I really don't think he is. He kept talking about his roommate. Also, I was thinking the whole "day" thing might mean something other than sex...usually those that want just sex wanna hang out at night, right? In general.
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Ask him? |
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does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work?
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dog dream
roco |
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Edited by
lizziebiz
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Thu 01/29/09 09:18 AM
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"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? "
Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message. And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him! |
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means nothing
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"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? " Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message. And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him! ...doesn't change the fact that he can give you the answer we cannot. You're asking us to read minds, and we simply cannot do that. |
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"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? " Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message. And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him! ...doesn't change the fact that he can give you the answer we cannot. You're asking us to read minds, and we simply cannot do that. Umm no I'm just asking for adivce/tips..obviously you have none, so SHUSH! |
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