If you had two really great people- both wanting to be in a relationship with you, how would you choose which one to stay with and how would you tell the other??

go with the one more likely to treat you right, I have seen a lot of girls go out with assholes who dont give them the respect they deserve

go with your women intituition!

as great as that sounds, i can honestly say i dont like being in that situation

see how each of the people make you feel...if you are thinking long term see which one can go the distance with you..if all else fails he with the most money wins...

An interesting quandary... I would either go for more picky testing or have them bare-knuckle box each other, although the second choice would mostly be for my own cheap amusement.

No seriously, I would go for the girl I think I could live with happier and which one would be happiest with me. As for telling the other, I would have to be honest and explain the whole situation, if I did my job right, they would've already known about the other potential partner already.

how would she know who has more money?

well I would just tell the other one cuz I am straight forward . also I dont think I would get lucky enough to have one to choose from let alone 2

That is what I would do....

None of the ladies have suggested a oiled-up shirtless Wrestling match between their guys I see...

choose by going out on dates with them a few times...ask them questions that you are interested in having answers to..select the one that meets your needs...tell the other guy by telling both guys the situation, what is to occur, and then the results of your decision.

roco

Um, if you are flipping a quarter, that would mean you have already labeled one guy 'Heads' and the other guy 'Tails'. Seriously, if it was me, I would choose, "Heads!" Cuz' what gal wants to be stuck with an *ss...er...Tails?

cage match

choose the winner

Tell them both the truth about your indecision,and the one that flips out the least and has a better way to solve the dilemma, is more worth pursuing...either way tell one to be a friend an pursue another.Tennis is for 2 people,no room for a third person to hang around waiting there turn,be respectful..

Im just really confused- they are both great.
One is very sweet and polite but almost to much. I like to pick and play around but he just doesnt keep up very well. He has an average job with average pay but I see no motivation in him to ever do anything else or better himself any. I feel like he is just to mellow for me. He also lives 98 miles away.((but)) he is the kind of guy that you would want your daughter with as far as love, honesty,devotion...etc. (doesnt drink often)
The second guy isnt as sweet but he has ways of showing me that im special. He picks and plays constant and always has a good come-back. He has a descent job and pretty good pay. He keeps me interested and always wanting more but im sure his lows are extreme as his highs....he only lives about 30 miles away. (drinks 3/4 beers daily)
I am going to spend time with each this weekend and make a decision. I will be honest with both and hopefully no one will get hurt.

I think you may be right...
good answer..lol

I dont think this would work...one is 5'11" and average size
the other is 6'4" and alot tougher

Oh! It's a REAL scenario.

Why rush into anything. Date them both until you figure out which is a better match.

Go with the one you have more in common with, and who you can communicate better with.

You are trying to decide between apples and oranges..

ya gotta stop trying to compare...both have attributes you like.

My thought...turn your back and slowly walk away..the one you are supposed to be with will be holding your hand.

Just a thought...life hands us so many variables...

I swear that it worked for me. (Don't misunderstand...I went through hell to get back to the one I should have been with all along)