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Topic: Would you....
Tj806's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:27 AM
Take care of a kid of a girl you just started dating?

ljcc1964's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:28 AM
Damnit.....where's my popcorn????

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Wed 01/28/09 09:29 AM
what do you mean "take care of"?huh

Shagwell's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:29 AM
too much too soon..! spock

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Wed 01/28/09 09:29 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Wed 01/28/09 09:34 AM
angel: Yes.If you are with someone with children,then that is part of the package.JMO Depending on what you mean? by taking care of.

Tj806's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:30 AM
Expample: Change them, buy the diapers, food ect ect.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:30 AM



I don't want kids.

karen_89's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:31 AM

Expample: Change them, buy the diapers, food ect ect.
no freakin way!

Winx's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:31 AM

Take care of a kid of a girl you just started dating?

Babysit? I wouldn't let a man do that when I'm dating him. I would only let him do that if I'm in a serious relationship.

aztmom's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:31 AM
The child is not yours to raise. It is her responsibility and to provide.

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Wed 01/28/09 09:32 AM
If I were dating a guy with a child, I wouldn't expect to start buying diapers and food..

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Wed 01/28/09 09:32 AM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Wed 01/28/09 09:32 AM

Expample: Change them, buy the diapers, food ect ect.
I wouldnt allow a new date to change the diapers,or buy the diapers but if you want to buy the child a meal somewhere then that would be acceptable. Is this girl asking for you to buy her diapers???huh

prisoner's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:33 AM

Damnit.....where's my popcorn????
:smile: here honey...extra butter...be seeing you

papersmile's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:33 AM

If I were dating a guy with a child, I wouldn't expect to start buying diapers and food..


never mind THAT.

if i just started dating a guy, there's no way he'd be looking at my child naked, even if it's as innocent as changing a diaper.

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Wed 01/28/09 09:35 AM
do you want to pay my light bill????:wink: laugh laugh

rlynne's photo
Wed 01/28/09 09:35 AM
if they needed it, yes.. because a child needs to be taken care of

now...if the child needs those things because the parent is lazy and won't do it then I wouldn't date them.. but for the time I would try to help the kid if I could, but that will quickly turn into a big mess

now if the parent is doing their damnedest to get what they need for themselves and the child..and ends just aren't meeting help out....it will be more appreciated than you know


now if she starts leaving the kid with you often or ALWAYS asks you for help.. cut it off.. tell her to apply for child support


but if its an occasional, she really couldn't get it on her own thing.. go ahead and lend a hand.. even if you aren't in a relationship it would be the good thing to do




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Wed 01/28/09 09:37 AM

if they needed it, yes.. because a child needs to be taken care of

now...if the child needs those things because the parent is lazy and won't do it then I wouldn't date them.. but for the time I would try to help the kid if I could, but that will quickly turn into a big mess

now if the parent is doing their damnedest to get what they need for themselves and the child..and ends just aren't meeting help out....it will be more appreciated than you know


now if she starts leaving the kid with you often or ALWAYS asks you for help.. cut it off.. tell her to apply for child support


but if its an occasional, she really couldn't get it on her own thing.. go ahead and lend a hand.. even if you aren't in a relationship it would be the good thing to do




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Wed 01/28/09 09:42 AM


If I were dating a guy with a child, I wouldn't expect to start buying diapers and food..


never mind THAT.

if i just started dating a guy, there's no way he'd be looking at my child naked, even if it's as innocent as changing a diaper.
sounds like she is not a very good mother and that dad should help with the dipers and stuff like that too

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Wed 01/28/09 09:50 AM

Damnit.....where's my popcorn????


No popcorn, but I have cheese.





Want some?

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Wed 01/28/09 09:51 AM
Ive known too many women to do this. I find it......very low to even ask someone to help me out this way.

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