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Take care of a kid of a girl you just started dating?
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Damnit.....where's my popcorn????
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what do you mean "take care of"?
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too much too soon..!
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Wed 01/28/09 09:34 AM
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angel: Yes.If you are with someone with children,then that is part of the package.JMO Depending on what you mean? by taking care of.
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Expample: Change them, buy the diapers, food ect ect.
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I don't want kids. |
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Expample: Change them, buy the diapers, food ect ect. |
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Take care of a kid of a girl you just started dating? Babysit? I wouldn't let a man do that when I'm dating him. I would only let him do that if I'm in a serious relationship. |
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The child is not yours to raise. It is her responsibility and to provide.
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If I were dating a guy with a child, I wouldn't expect to start buying diapers and food..
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Edited by
Gypsy41
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Wed 01/28/09 09:32 AM
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Expample: Change them, buy the diapers, food ect ect. |
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Damnit.....where's my popcorn???? |
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If I were dating a guy with a child, I wouldn't expect to start buying diapers and food.. never mind THAT. if i just started dating a guy, there's no way he'd be looking at my child naked, even if it's as innocent as changing a diaper. |
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do you want to pay my light bill????
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if they needed it, yes.. because a child needs to be taken care of
now...if the child needs those things because the parent is lazy and won't do it then I wouldn't date them.. but for the time I would try to help the kid if I could, but that will quickly turn into a big mess now if the parent is doing their damnedest to get what they need for themselves and the child..and ends just aren't meeting help out....it will be more appreciated than you know now if she starts leaving the kid with you often or ALWAYS asks you for help.. cut it off.. tell her to apply for child support but if its an occasional, she really couldn't get it on her own thing.. go ahead and lend a hand.. even if you aren't in a relationship it would be the good thing to do |
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if they needed it, yes.. because a child needs to be taken care of now...if the child needs those things because the parent is lazy and won't do it then I wouldn't date them.. but for the time I would try to help the kid if I could, but that will quickly turn into a big mess now if the parent is doing their damnedest to get what they need for themselves and the child..and ends just aren't meeting help out....it will be more appreciated than you know now if she starts leaving the kid with you often or ALWAYS asks you for help.. cut it off.. tell her to apply for child support but if its an occasional, she really couldn't get it on her own thing.. go ahead and lend a hand.. even if you aren't in a relationship it would be the good thing to do |
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If I were dating a guy with a child, I wouldn't expect to start buying diapers and food.. never mind THAT. if i just started dating a guy, there's no way he'd be looking at my child naked, even if it's as innocent as changing a diaper. |
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Damnit.....where's my popcorn???? No popcorn, but I have cheese. Want some? |
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Ive known too many women to do this. I find it......very low to even ask someone to help me out this way.
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