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Topic: One of my mutual matches
axeman007's photo
Tue 01/27/09 07:40 AM
not many people have ever replyed to mine,lilith is the only one that has Emaild me more than once.oh and thanks by the way.:wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 01/27/09 07:44 AM



Too shy to reply to an email? That makes no sense.


Not only does it not make sense, who would want to develop a relationship with someone so shy they can't REPLY. We're not talkin initiate here.

Yikes. Why are they on a dating site if that's so? Especially online dating .. it's not for the faint at heart, that's for sure.


Uh Oh.... Fade. These are laid back folks, here! laugh

They joined so they can say, I've tried everything, nothing works? Damn the world!



Hmmm I've never thought about it that way. And once again 'WE' are blamed for another's struggles, weaknesses, CS way of viewing life eh? :laughing: .. *sigh*

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/27/09 07:47 AM

not many people have ever replyed to mine,lilith is the only one that has Emaild me more than once.oh and thanks by the way.:wink:


You are most welcome. The posters here are great folks...

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 07:47 AM


So, I actually emailed all of my mutual matches last time. Then deleted them when I never heard from them. One of them, who did read my email, yet never replied has looked at my profile several times since then. I know, I know.. mutual matches never work. I just found it odd that he ignored my email, yet keeps checking out my profile. laugh
SO I NEVER GOT YOUR EMAIL..........MUST BE LOST IN THE WEB SOME PLACE..........laugh laugh laugh :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: winking winking winking winking winking


huh

74Drew's photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:36 AM

Too shy to reply to an email? That makes no sense.


i'm with you on this one.
i've had women not respond to email. i mean how hard is it to tell someone you're not interested. i'd even take a F*** off. it's better than nothing.

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:45 AM


Too shy to reply to an email? That makes no sense.


i'm with you on this one.
i've had women not respond to email. i mean how hard is it to tell someone you're not interested. i'd even take a F*** off. it's better than nothing.


Well, this is a little different, as I was talking about mutual matches. I'm not talking about people normally ignoring emails. Usually no response is the response. However, I was talking about someone who was a mutual match.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:48 AM
I have figured out how to get them to respond, you must send them an email that says there is no way in hell you would consider dating them, chances are good they will respondlaugh

sensualsweet's photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:51 AM

I wouldn't email my mutual matches...they are pretty scary.

laugh laugh


I'm confused? If they are mutual matches, that means that you said "yes" indicating that you were interested in them.

So, why are they now scary to you???


slaphead

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:53 AM

I have figured out how to get them to respond, you must send them an email that says there is no way in hell you would consider dating them, chances are good they will respondlaugh


There's another way -- set your search distance to one trillion miles, then anyone who is farther than 897,000 miles away will automatically want to date you.



ianminty2's photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:57 AM
i went a bit trigger happy with the mutual match button. now i have 3 mutual matches. i never read these ladies profiles and solely went for there looks.

maybe ive been slightly rude in not emailing them, in fact i have been. but hey ho.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:59 AM


I have figured out how to get them to respond, you must send them an email that says there is no way in hell you would consider dating them, chances are good they will respondlaugh


There's another way -- set your search distance to one trillion miles, then anyone who is farther than 897,000 miles away will automatically want to date you.






I agree, it's one of those things that make you do thisfrustrated

kojack's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:03 AM
Happens all the time to all of us.

One did actually mail me back saying one picture of me scared them, can u guess which one LOL

ianminty2's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:06 AM
i cannot pin point one in particular there all fairly scary

haha joke bud


seriously i think if someone is going to reply was a rather rude comment on your pics, then surely she should top it off with a compliment on your profile essay. that goes for anyone

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:40 AM
let's face it this isn't rocket science ..is it? I think people just want and expect it to appear . As one poster said in their lap... bottom line is most people are rude and self centered. they expect.. But they never think of "what if the role was reversed" how would they feel? oh darn.. probably who cares?laugh

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