Topic: Why do
Totage's photo
Mon 01/26/09 01:14 PM
some people insist on being in an abusive relationship, having and creating choas, and instability (financial, emotional, etc.), NOT making any decisions, always making the completely WRONG decision, saying one thing while meaning the opposite, cutting all ties with any who truely cares about them, because they don't want to listen to reality?

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Mr_Music's photo
Mon 01/26/09 01:15 PM
Darwinism.

That's the problem with the gene pool. There is no lifeguard.

franshade's photo
Mon 01/26/09 01:16 PM

some people insist on being in an abusive relationship, having and creating choas, and instability (financial, emotional, etc.), NOT making any decisions, always making the completely WRONG decision, saying one thing while meaning the opposite, cutting all ties with any who truely cares about them, because they don't want to listen to reality?

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are you in an abusive relationship? do you know someone who is in an abusive relationship? what are you doing about it?

Most people don't insist on being in abusive relationships, they just fear change, lack self esteem, motivation and are full of doubt.


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Mon 01/26/09 01:17 PM
Tell them to try colon detoxification. It's the new rage.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 01/26/09 01:19 PM

Darwinism.

That's the problem with the gene pool. There is no lifeguard.



Bingo...another drop of cyanide in there?

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Mon 01/26/09 01:22 PM

some people insist on being in an abusive relationship, having and creating choas, and instability (financial, emotional, etc.), NOT making any decisions, always making the completely WRONG decision, saying one thing while meaning the opposite, cutting all ties with any who truely cares about them, because they don't want to listen to reality?

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Most of them have NO confidence & don't have a clue what luv is........

AngieH79's photo
Mon 01/26/09 05:16 PM

Darwinism.

That's the problem with the gene pool. There is no lifeguard.



I'd volunteer if I thought it would help.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 01/26/09 07:31 PM


Darwinism.

That's the problem with the gene pool. There is no lifeguard.



I'd volunteer if I thought it would help.


I hope you have enough Chlorine to go around.

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Mon 01/26/09 07:32 PM

some people insist on being in an abusive relationship, having and creating choas, and instability (financial, emotional, etc.), NOT making any decisions, always making the completely WRONG decision, saying one thing while meaning the opposite, cutting all ties with any who truely cares about them, because they don't want to listen to reality?

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Because people are stupid. REALLY stupid.

livelife68's photo
Mon 01/26/09 07:37 PM
Many times they think things will get worse if they leave the relationship.

scoundrel's photo
Mon 01/26/09 07:50 PM
As an abusive creep, I would not consider myself as abusive but as forced by your ineptitude to be the lead dog in the relationship.
You haven't got a clue about being a success in life on your own, so I am not really abusive but doing you a favor in making you face the truth of your need for me to be emotionally tied to a failure like you.
If you want to call it abuse, then hit the road, and let's see how you do. You'll be just another failure and add this relationship to your long and sorry list of failures because you cannot make the grade.
Got the point yet, numbskull?
I'm not abusive.
Because I truly care, and I am doing this for you because I am a good guy, but not a pansy. Grow the heck up and get over your self-pity. Thank God that somebody like me cares enough to help you get real in the world, and then you can begin to think logically about reality instead of with your whiny wishy-washy pathetic emotions.

There.

Now, do you understand why people stay in these kinds of relationships? It is called being brainwashed and beaten into submission, by people who think that they are moral and good.


P.S. Forgive me, Mingle peers, for venting that nasty trash above. I'm not that way.