Topic: Long Distance Relationships
horsegirl55's photo
Mon 01/26/09 01:19 AM
What is your take on them?
How long should you email?
How long do you wait to meet?
Where do you meet?

What if that person talks to you everyday and then disappears for days....what should you do?

Is it possible to have a long distance relationship?

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 01/26/09 03:30 AM
It's possible but unless one of you has definite plans of moving they rarely last.

oldsage's photo
Mon 01/26/09 03:53 AM
Very few of these make it much past a good friendship.
Can be some great vacations, meeting people.

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Mon 01/26/09 04:38 AM
It really depends on how much each party wants to invest time wise.
And if someone disappears for days without saying a word beforehand, I would give him the boot fast.
It's either you want a serious relationship, then you should give an approximate account of how long you are gone, or you don't, and then you are not worth keeping.

no photo
Mon 01/26/09 04:45 PM

What is your take on them?
How long should you email?
How long do you wait to meet?
Where do you meet?

What if that person talks to you everyday and then disappears for days....what should you do?

Is it possible to have a long distance relationship?


tough stuff HG
you never stop emailing
then the phone calls start
you meet when both of you feel comfortable
where you meet all depends on your situation
if you have a real long distance relationship the other person doesn't just disappear and if you don't hear from them obviously you contact them. something may be wrong. but then again i would do that for someone i cared for who was close also.
a relationship is a relationship. the distance just makes you have to work harder. all depends on how much energy, effort and funds you have to invest.
a very good friend of mine reminds me "intention equals results" :wink:

horsegirl55's photo
Tue 01/27/09 06:07 AM


What is your take on them?
How long should you email?
How long do you wait to meet?
Where do you meet?

What if that person talks to you everyday and then disappears for days....what should you do?

Is it possible to have a long distance relationship?


tough stuff HG
you never stop emailing
then the phone calls start
you meet when both of you feel comfortable
where you meet all depends on your situation
if you have a real long distance relationship the other person doesn't just disappear and if you don't hear from them obviously you contact them. something may be wrong. but then again i would do that for someone i cared for who was close also.
a relationship is a relationship. the distance just makes you have to work harder. all depends on how much energy, effort and funds you have to invest.
a very good friend of mine reminds me "intention equals results" :wink:


Thanks Music!flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/27/09 07:56 AM
HG, we could have talked about this in private.
You know I would never lie to you.
Don't listen to all these other people.
Just put me on your bank account & I will handle all your affairs.

Ohh, by the way, I hold title to a bridge over a local lake, going to put a toll booth on it, how about investing.

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: surprised flowers flowers

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Tue 01/27/09 08:28 AM

HG, we could have talked about this in private.
You know I would never lie to you.
Don't listen to all these other people.
Just put me on your bank account & I will handle all your affairs.

Ohh, by the way, I hold title to a bridge over a local lake, going to put a toll booth on it, how about investing.

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: surprised flowers flowers


Ouchie

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BettyB's photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:36 AM
Hg
I really believe no response is a response.
Some people are just into playing games, especially when they know how much it hurts.and are well aware of your feelings.flowerforyou
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Drago01's photo
Tue 01/27/09 08:38 AM

What is your take on them?
How long should you email?
How long do you wait to meet?
Where do you meet?

What if that person talks to you everyday and then disappears for days....what should you do?

Is it possible to have a long distance relationship?



Unless you plan on flying around the Country, I would say just remain friends. My two-cents.

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:01 AM
Mucic said it best



"INTENTION = RESULTS"


If they intend to use you, they will try.


If they intend to build a relationship, they will try.


We hope for #2, but NEED to be aware of #1.

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:17 AM
There are always things that can happen by accident, but if they happen the second and third time, I'd just run for cover.

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:23 AM
everybody is different, butt for me 50 miles is about as long distance as I will try to do. If I like someone I want to spend time with them, not just an occasional weekend or so.

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Tue 01/27/09 09:32 AM

everybody is different, butt for me 50 miles is about as long distance as I will try to do. If I like someone I want to spend time with them, not just an occasional weekend or so.
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Cool new pic.happy flowerforyou

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Tue 01/27/09 09:34 AM


everybody is different, butt for me 50 miles is about as long distance as I will try to do. If I like someone I want to spend time with them, not just an occasional weekend or so.
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Cool new pic.happy flowerforyou
tanks blushing flowerforyou

Hillbillie62's photo
Tue 01/27/09 12:50 PM

everybody is different, butt for me 50 miles is about as long distance as I will try to do. If I like someone I want to spend time with them, not just an occasional weekend or so.


I would say beyond a 3-4 hour drive is too far. I had sort of a "long distance phone relationship" (800 miles) He eventually found someone closer which is always a possibility.

If you haven't heard for a few days, would you call a girlfriend? That's my test.