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Topic: "TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT .."
PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 01/27/09 03:35 PM
I want to make TRUE friends....... Now you are 2nd poster on this page to say that. What kind of friends HAVE you been making, that you feel you need to qualify the 'type' .. j/w I guess I've made a few that have seemed to be really nice......and thought there might have been something special clicking........and then "zap".......nothing......gone......no more conversation.....no warning...... Where I come from.....that would be like walking away from someone in the middle of a sentence during a conversation......without a word.......and never coming back..... It depends who you are talking too but if you are getting shut off mid conversation my guess would be that the person you are talking to is living with someone they don't want to get caught talking to you. Probably someone who is married or worse a minor. Or they are at work and don't want to get fired. It is possible that the person you are talking to has a bum computer. For a while I had a bad cord connection and finnally got it fixed. If you are pinching pennies and on dial up it is easy to loose a connection. Especially in peak hours such as evening and weekends or school holidays. I agree if someone just blows you off they are rude. But, and I haven't seen this apply to you, if you are otherwise distracted like some folks always being interrrupted for a smoke, let the animals out, holding down more than one conversation at a time you can't really think that they think they have your attention.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 01/27/09 03:45 PM
I can be completly honest and say I am here to try to find someone I can connect with and fall in love with. If i make a lot of friends alng the way then it is even better but Truthfully I really wanna find the woman I will spend my days growing old with. You know deep down I think MOST people hope this comes out of the time they spend on here .. except of course the married ones. HOpefully they ALREADY have that I will confess that I'm not actually adverse to the idea....! Just that I haven't seen anyone compatible in the two years I've been here, and I don't see the prospect of change as being very great....

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Tue 01/27/09 03:57 PM
I can be completly honest and say I am here to try to find someone I can connect with and fall in love with. If i make a lot of friends alng the way then it is even better but Truthfully I really wanna find the woman I will spend my days growing old with. You know deep down I think MOST people hope this comes out of the time they spend on here .. except of course the married ones. HOpefully they ALREADY have that I will confess that I'm not actually adverse to the idea....! Just that I haven't seen anyone compatible in the two years I've been here, and I don't see the prospect of change as being very great.... People who can't find someone "compatible" are probably spending time looking for someone with their same interests instead of pursuing their own interests. Here is a great suggestion. If you want someone who is interested in the things you are interested in, then get involved in what you are interested in and you are very likely to meet someone along the way who is interested in that same thing. It makes sense to me.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 01/27/09 04:04 PM
People who can't find someone "compatible" are probably spending time looking for someone with their same interests instead of pursuing their own interests. Well, no -- my interests are basically writing and playing hockey. Writing is a totally solitary activity (for me, anyway -- that's the way I work) and there are no women on the hockey teams I play for and against. I really haven't made any attempt at "looking" for anybody for quite some time now -- I moved, several times, recently -- I don't know anyone here, don't really know how to go about meeting anyone here -- the only reliable way I've ever met people has been through friends. So the whole process of "meeting" someone has been relegated to the back burner. The WAY back burner. Here is a great suggestion. If you want someone who is interested in the things you are interested in, then get involved in what you are interested in and you are very likely to meet someone along the way who is interested in that same thing. I AM involved in what I'm interested in -- to the virtual exclusion of everything else. Those things, unfortunately, are not conducive to meeting people who would be suitable for me.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 01/27/09 04:52 PM
which is fine with me ... i dont hate Gosh I would hope not LOL Peace out dude awwwwww... you dont like younger guys LMAO .. well you OBVIOUSLY haven't been around long cuz everyone knows that's ALLL I date is younger hon ..

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sun 02/01/09 02:44 AM
*bumps Fade*just because

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sun 02/01/09 04:10 AM
tonight, I want a candlelight massage! Dripping candlewax is just the ticket to spice up the massage.

OSHERRYJUST4U Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 23267	Sun 02/01/09 06:51 AM
I want him to feel the

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 02/01/09 06:53 AM
I just want my soldier

OSHERRYJUST4U Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 23267	Mon 02/02/09 06:32 AM
I feel his so I am very HAPPY!!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 02/02/09 06:34 AM
Sherry I think you keep this thread alive ..you go girlfriend

OSHERRYJUST4U Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 23267	Mon 02/02/09 06:39 AM
Sherry I think you keep this thread alive ..you go girlfriend Thanks hun I just miss my baby

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 02/02/09 06:42 AM
Sherry I think you keep this thread alive ..you go girlfriend Thanks hun I just miss my baby I miss mine too .. but can't get mine back. Glad you have good things ahead eh?

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 02/02/09 06:46 AM
So tell me what you want, what you really really want, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want .. So ya .. honestly, let's cut to the chase. Be real. Shoot straight. What ARE you on here for? What DO you really want? Many posters in the forums play the "meh .. I'm just here for my homies .. or for shooting the breeze with others .." Will ya take the risk to be vulnerable and transparent and tell us why you really DO spend time (for some it's alll day/night) on the forums, and for that matter .. on this site in general. Why you DO have pictures of yourself and write a short story bout your life. So tell US what you want, what you really really want, WE'LL tell you what WE want, what WE really really want .. *PULLS UP CHAIR, GRABS A COLD ONE .. AND WAITS. I want it all me 2

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 02/02/09 06:48 AM
So tell me what you want, what you really really want, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want .. So ya .. honestly, let's cut to the chase. Be real. Shoot straight. What ARE you on here for? What DO you really want? Many posters in the forums play the "meh .. I'm just here for my homies .. or for shooting the breeze with others .." Will ya take the risk to be vulnerable and transparent and tell us why you really DO spend time (for some it's alll day/night) on the forums, and for that matter .. on this site in general. Why you DO have pictures of yourself and write a short story bout your life. So tell US what you want, what you really really want, WE'LL tell you what WE want, what WE really really want .. *PULLS UP CHAIR, GRABS A COLD ONE .. AND WAITS. I want it all me 2 Ladies and gentlemen .. we have a match

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 02/02/09 06:50 AM Edited by misstina2 on Mon 02/02/09 06:51 AM
I want someone I enjoy talking to sharing my dreams wanna fall asleep in his arms every night and wake up with a knowing I get to be with my best friend

OSHERRYJUST4U Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 23267	Mon 02/02/09 07:07 AM
Sherry I think you keep this thread alive ..you go girlfriend Thanks hun I just miss my baby I miss mine too .. but can't get mine back. Glad you have good things ahead eh? I see he's a soldier?????

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 02/02/09 07:09 AM
Sherry I think you keep this thread alive ..you go girlfriend Thanks hun I just miss my baby I miss mine too .. but can't get mine back. Glad you have good things ahead eh? I see he's a soldier????? This will explain it babe: http://mingle2.com/topic/show/201331

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 02/02/09 07:10 AM
I want someone I enjoy talking to sharing my dreams wanna fall asleep in his arms every night and wake up with a knowing I get to be with my best friend And do you hope to find him on here? or is this place just killin time til you DO find him 'out there'

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 02/03/09 12:25 PM
People who can't find someone "compatible" are probably spending time looking for someone with their same interests instead of pursuing their own interests. Well, no -- my interests are basically writing and playing hockey. Writing is a totally solitary activity (for me, anyway -- that's the way I work) and there are no women on the hockey teams I play for and against. I really haven't made any attempt at "looking" for anybody for quite some time now -- I moved, several times, recently -- I don't know anyone here, don't really know how to go about meeting anyone here -- the only reliable way I've ever met people has been through friends. So the whole process of "meeting" someone has been relegated to the back burner. The WAY back burner. Here is a great suggestion. If you want someone who is interested in the things you are interested in, then get involved in what you are interested in and you are very likely to meet someone along the way who is interested in that same thing. I AM involved in what I'm interested in -- to the virtual exclusion of everything else. Those things, unfortunately, are not conducive to meeting people who would be suitable for me. Don't ya think sometimes that dating deserves the back burner anyway? Seriously, we all have so many other things to deal with right now, it's just NOT a priority anymore ..