Sticks and stones Tinkerbell.

When you find a woman that you fall in love with, you have to tell them "I love you" if you feel they want to hear that, but you have to MEAN IT and not just say it! You have to make them feel they are special, they are needed, they are the only one you see in a crowded room. You can't let romance fade into oblivion. Always show it & feel it! You can't let up, ever, nor should you want to. If you are lucky enough to find that special woman, always let her know that she is special or eventually she will look elsewhere to find one who will let her know she is.

what i did not understand your message i dont do drugs and i work very hard and i have a very good heart but i jsut keep meeting the wrong woman i guess they should make a place for serious single people looking for true love seriously they should

Ok, BREATHE! Now count to 10...I'll count with ya'...1...2...3...there ya' go...don't forget to breathe...lol.

Honestly, I believe it is in our own choices. So, the women you are choosing may all have that same character flaw (generalizing here because you grouped us all together with your post). Figure out what it is that each of the "cheaters" have in common and by process of elimination, figure out which of those commonalities are negative. Then look for a mate that doesn't have those negative characteristics.

Love doesn't die. It is ALWAYS there. Always. Unless you are referring to what some people think love is (sex, control, manipulation, abuse, etc.). When we begin a relationship, our brains produce more of certain hormones which make us "feel good". After being together over a period of time, the production of those hormones slows.

It becomes easy for a person to get attention from another source and suddenly, the hormones kick into high gear again. Thus, producing those "feel good" sensations again. It's natural for us to want to feel good so we spend more time with the other source (3rd party). Some call this 'The Chase' and you can call it whatever you desire but it's how the human body works.

And, on a final note, it is the "cheaters" choice to act on those feelings. Some of us do not act on them. I wish you the best, Officerdaddy, hope this helps you.

**Hope this makes sense, I'm exhausted...lol.**

Totally agree. If a toothless, bearded hag(Jumping Jack Flash!)had a lot of money and wanted to spend it on me, she would totally win my heart.

Just being honest Mrs. Moral Detective.

did we hit a button....you are a nice lady

Sorry. I have just had way too many people try to tell me these things, like they were true. It was a insensative man, like these one's here, who beat my older sister over time until he killed her. She never told us, and we probobly would have never known if he hadn't gone too far that one time.

Sorry about your sister Tink, a lot of dudes do suck, but it is partially her fault for staying in that position. Don't make a comfort excuse like "it's not that easy." Well yeah, life changes are always a challenge, but you choose where you stay too. Call me an A-hole all you want but deep down you know it's true. Just be glad she finally got out of that mess.

I am so sorry to hear about your sister I went through that fore 10 yeaqrs and finally ran with 5 kids...it is a tragedy when those that claim to love us have no love at all in their souls

Yeah, that excitement is hard wired into us. It comes from a desire to procreate the species.

That's why we are intially attracted to someone. There is something about them that makes us view them as a potential mate. Love is from mental evolution as we try to rise above the beasts that we came from.

Hell, eveolution is even apparent in our sex organs. When a female mentruates, her ass doesn't get all puffy so the males know whats up. She knows and can choose when she wants to reproduce at a time that she is more fertile with a male she thinks is best suited. Likewise with a man, the head on his wang is designed to remove the baby batter from women when they're doing the bedroom lambada.

Can you honestly tell me that looks are the LAST thing you notice about a potential mate? Keep in mind your moral views on honesty when replying.

Simple truth is that we are human. We are a species of animal. Love is an ideal we learn. We are not wired to mate for life. And don't give me that horsesh1t about the damned penguins, they all look alike so you can't tell which swimming chicken is porking which.

Look, Mrs. Morals, don't tell me it comes with age. You mean to tell me that a higher standard of living doesn't help decide if people stay or go? I am still friend's with my former father-in-law who is over 60 and he complains about women wanting only one thing. MONEY. No, not straight up cabbage, but they always ask him about retirement, investments, things like that. And this is normally on the first date. Maybe I come accross as brash, but more people need a bite from a reality sandwich. Look, optimism isn't bad when taken in the right dose. Hope for the best, but plan on the worst so you aren't disappointed. The cold hard fact is that fr any given individual 99.9% of the world does not care about them.

Also, I think a lot of you are blind to the sarcasm too. Chill out, this is an internet forum, a place to echange ideas. It's not a do or die situation.