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been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me.
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suck it up, learn from it & MOVE ON
Your heart isn't really broken, just your PRIDE. |
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been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me. Never make someone your priority when they only make you their option. It's gotta be 50/50. I'm sure there's a fine lady out there who will be deserving of your love and devotion and who will in return give you the same amount of respect, love and affection. I know you're hurting, I can totally relate, but you just gotta move on. Don't let her get you down. She was totally not worth your time and effort. |
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it sucks bro
but this is why I am single sorry to hear this.but really the best thing is to just let go and move on,I know thats easier said that done |
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you are not alone in that pain
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People CAN NOT be used, unless they ALLOW it.
YOU were either blinded be desire or need. DO NOT ALLOW youeself to do that again. LEARN & be careful. |
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been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me. What you tolerate you endorse. Live and learn. Better luck next time. |
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it is life bro... All women are the same in the end. Its sick as hell any more just looking for an upgrade. Like tonight at the bar 8 girls had b/fs and than they hit on me and my boys! its disgusting way they are now i dont know i ever want to date again it just leads to bull ****!
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i know when i come on yes its life i just wanna vent out.im a man about it, i just wanna share what i feel. i understand what you all are saying
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Long as yo know the truth, VENT away; that is what we are here for.
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Long as yo know the truth, VENT away; that is what we are here for. Wait, is THAT what we're here for? LOL |
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been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me. are you sure you loved her ? that sounds more like an obsession,.. been there,.. done that,.. you need sometime to figure out why you were attracted to her in the first place,.. let`s say she did a 180,..would you be the one running way,.. |
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People CAN NOT be used, unless they ALLOW it. YOU were either blinded be desire or need. DO NOT ALLOW youeself to do that again. LEARN & be careful. You share your life with someone, don't live FOR them. |
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*looks around*
get this gentlemen a double put it on my tab, Sorry guy |
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Just as there is information asymmetry, so too is there relationship asymmetry. Find someone that is going to put into it as much as you do.
roco |
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been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me. So what is it, exactly, that you're confused about? |
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I smell victim here.
When someone OBLIGATES the other with responsibility for their entire emotional welfare.... they are copping out... and really only have one way to go.....victim. YOU chose to give 100%..you CHOSE to devote blood sweat and tears.... YOU allegedly got hurt, abused, etc... what's the common denominator? YOU!!!! Own your sh*te... and don't blame others when YOU don't get what you want. |
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I smell victim here. When someone OBLIGATES the other with responsibility for their entire emotional welfare.... they are copping out... and really only have one way to go.....victim. YOU chose to give 100%..you CHOSE to devote blood sweat and tears.... YOU allegedly got hurt, abused, etc... what's the common denominator? YOU!!!! Own your sh*te... and don't blame others when YOU don't get what you want. Ouch, ouch, ouch! |
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suck it up, learn from it & MOVE ON Your heart isn't really broken, just your PRIDE. |
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it is life bro... All women are the same in the end. Its sick as hell any more just looking for an upgrade. Like tonight at the bar 8 girls had b/fs and than they hit on me and my boys! its disgusting way they are now i dont know i ever want to date again it just leads to bull ****! All women, I don't think so!!! And furthermore, in a year you got not a dam thing out of it??? I highly doubt anyone stays in a relationship without getting anything out of it!! |
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