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Topic: confused?
italio69's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:12 AM
been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me.

oldsage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:17 AM
suck it up, learn from it & MOVE ON

Your heart isn't really broken, just your PRIDE.

MahanMahan's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:20 AM

been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me.


Never make someone your priority when they only make you their option. It's gotta be 50/50. I'm sure there's a fine lady out there who will be deserving of your love and devotion and who will in return give you the same amount of respect, love and affection.

I know you're hurting, I can totally relate, but you just gotta move on. Don't let her get you down. She was totally not worth your time and effort.

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:21 AM
it sucks bro


but this is why I am single


sorry to hear this.but really the best thing is to just let go and move on,I know thats easier said that done

tessa68's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:21 AM
you are not alone in that painsad sad sad brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart

oldsage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:25 AM
People CAN NOT be used, unless they ALLOW it.

YOU were either blinded be desire or need.

DO NOT ALLOW youeself to do that again.

LEARN & be careful.

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:30 AM

been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me.


What you tolerate you endorse. Live and learn.
Better luck next time.

goldenknight22's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:34 AM
it is life bro... All women are the same in the end. Its sick as hell any more just looking for an upgrade. Like tonight at the bar 8 girls had b/fs and than they hit on me and my boys! its disgusting way they are now i dont know i ever want to date again it just leads to bull ****!


italio69's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:40 AM
i know when i come on yes its life i just wanna vent out.im a man about it, i just wanna share what i feel. i understand what you all are saying

oldsage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 02:42 AM
Long as yo know the truth, VENT away; that is what we are here for.

MahanMahan's photo
Sat 01/24/09 03:47 AM

Long as yo know the truth, VENT away; that is what we are here for.


Wait, is THAT what we're here for? LOL

slaphead

May777's photo
Sat 01/24/09 07:07 AM

been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me.



are you sure you loved her ? that sounds more like an obsession,..

been there,.. done that,.. :cry:

you need sometime to figure out why you were attracted to her in the first place,..

let`s say she did a 180,..would you be the one running way,..




Cristina4fun's photo
Sat 01/24/09 01:03 PM

People CAN NOT be used, unless they ALLOW it.

YOU were either blinded be desire or need.

DO NOT ALLOW youeself to do that again.

LEARN & be careful.
Truer words have never been spoken.

You share your life with someone, don't live FOR them.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 01/24/09 01:05 PM
*looks around*

get this gentlemen a double put it on my tab, drinker


Sorry guy :cry:

Roco's photo
Sat 01/24/09 01:20 PM
Just as there is information asymmetry, so too is there relationship asymmetry. Find someone that is going to put into it as much as you do.

roco

Mr_Music's photo
Sat 01/24/09 01:23 PM

been dating this person for a year,i gave this person my sweat,blood and tears.still its not enough for her.i gave my everything 100%.she hurt me bad .she used me, and abused me.


So what is it, exactly, that you're confused about?

Jess642's photo
Sat 01/24/09 01:26 PM
I smell victim here.

When someone OBLIGATES the other with responsibility for their entire emotional welfare.... they are copping out... and really only have one way to go.....victim.

YOU chose to give 100%..you CHOSE to devote blood sweat and tears.... YOU allegedly got hurt, abused, etc...

what's the common denominator? YOU!!!!

Own your sh*te... and don't blame others when YOU don't get what you want.

MahanMahan's photo
Wed 01/28/09 04:47 AM

I smell victim here.

When someone OBLIGATES the other with responsibility for their entire emotional welfare.... they are copping out... and really only have one way to go.....victim.

YOU chose to give 100%..you CHOSE to devote blood sweat and tears.... YOU allegedly got hurt, abused, etc...

what's the common denominator? YOU!!!!

Own your sh*te... and don't blame others when YOU don't get what you want.


Ouch, ouch, ouch!




prisoner's photo
Wed 01/28/09 04:52 AM

suck it up, learn from it & MOVE ON

Your heart isn't really broken, just your PRIDE.
:smile: now this is a manly answer from a wise old sage...way too many whiney men today,imo...be seeing you

Seakolony's photo
Wed 01/28/09 04:52 AM

it is life bro... All women are the same in the end. Its sick as hell any more just looking for an upgrade. Like tonight at the bar 8 girls had b/fs and than they hit on me and my boys! its disgusting way they are now i dont know i ever want to date again it just leads to bull ****!



mad frustrated rant
All women, I don't think so!!!
frustrated
And furthermore, in a year you got not a dam thing out of it??? I highly doubt anyone stays in a relationship without getting anything out of it!!
yawn noway

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