have any of yall had a 'mutal match' with someone that you found indescribably attractive.. that is, it's not the 'usual' attractive qualities.. waited a week or so to write them.. and discovered their accounts were 'deactivated.'..


well... I just experienced that.. we should start a group or something..

Happens all the time. Nothing to see here.

Honestly....I have emailed MANY people. Never one email from or to me from a mutual match! I pretty much thought that was a given.....

never happened to me....sorry

Yep. It is a fairly common occurance.

That's standard practice here

I have one mutual match... I last wrote back 2 weeks ago perhaps he vanished?

The mingle ghost is on the loose again

dear diary, why is a 19 yr old picking me for a mutual match? oh crap wrong thread!

I click NO on everyone. I only do it if I am VERY bored.

thats what happens when you wait a week.


so far almost every guy ive talked to.. talks big on meeting but pansys out.

or maybe its just me...

You snooze you lose.

mutual match is a joke bc you have to say yes or no, without knowing if ur saying yes to someone that already picked you or not...

and i have yet to have a mutual match contact me, or reply if i did email them *rolls eyes*

I've been waiting over a year

man... ive got LOTS of matches (its a joke) an LOTs of friends...most of the matches never even talked to me b4 OR after they were "matched" i guess they r shy... all but a few that is ... if u want to meet someone or know someone u'll have to speak up ladies...im not all about doing my footwork and urs too

As they say when something seems to good to be true it is!!

Most likely they were a scammer and got busted and their account was banned by Admin.

The site does not promote scammers on the site and will in fact get rid of them as they find them.

So therefore anytime you find one that is way too good to be true you might want to go to their profile and on the right hand side across from their picture you will see report this user click on scammer/spammer and in the box just put in that they might want to check them to see if they are scammers.

Admin will check it out to see if in fact they are.


So when in doubt have them checked out.

hey can u check out.... myonlymutalmatch.com for me?

its all a ploy to keep us on this site in hopes we will eventually find our true love on MM

what they dont tell you is that they are fake profiles and pictures(they use the ones you get when you buy a picture frame) ssssshhhhhhh dont tell anyone

I thought the "MM" was another room I hadn't found yet...