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Hey there Nikitaa,if you'd like some friendly advice towards getting so many messages from guys wanting to chat ! My advice would be to choose certain email message from guys who wanna have friendly/fun conversations with you because those will be the most interesting contacts.All the rest just discard
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Edited by
Nikitaa
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Fri 01/23/09 07:30 PM
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I can't just chat with a dozen guys everyday because I do have other things to do. I want to be polite but I'm not attached to this computer 24/7. Guys, I already know your ideas but sorry, I can't sleep with every guy who emails. My bed is not that big. I never heard anyone say youth and attractiveness was a burden, I'll manage it, somehow.  What you described sounds like regular life, I can take it.
Quite modest, aren't we? 
Isn't false modesty a sin? I call it confidence and it's even more attractive in a man. |
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I responded to a one liner and he wrote back that he was to ugly for me to get to know. Why did he even bother to "hi" me?
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Confidence is one thing. Narcissism is quite another.
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I responded to a one liner and he wrote back that he was to ugly for me to get to know. Why did he even bother to "hi" me? Probably Curiousity ! It's a weakness for guys 
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Maybe I like 'em ugly!
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Maybe I like 'em ugly! 
Strange that he would look at your profile, email you and then turn around and say he was too ugly. Did you look at his profile to confirm or was he just one of those "please tell me I'm cute for the 100th time today" type of people? |
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Thing was, I have seen much worse.
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well to chat it doesnt matter to me if they are cute to me or not what matters is the substance.. im not a shallow person...
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well to chat it doesnt matter to me if they are cute to me or not what matters is the substance.. im not a shallow person... EXACTLY!!!! |
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Edited by
bryguy1972
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Fri 01/23/09 08:21 PM
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I agree, buttons. If someone starts up a conversation with me then I take the time to chat with them. I've met women who are interested in dogs (my passion), and while they aren't the type whom I would date, I have no problem making friends with them.
I think sometimes people see online dating as "all or nothing". If someone contacts them and they don't find them attractive, the mentality is "Nope, not the one. Next." |
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She deactivated already?
Why do people do that? 
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I agree, buttons. If someone starts up a conversation with me then I take the time to chat with them. I've met women who are interested in dogs (my passion), and while they aren't the type whom I would date, I have no problem making friends with them. I think sometimes people see online dating as "all or nothing". If someone contacts them and they don't find them attractive, the mentality is "Nope, not the one. Next." |
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She deactivated already?
Why do people do that?
Mindy? |
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She deactivated already?
Why do people do that?
because they are pansies. haven't we been through this? lol mmmm sexy repetition. ;p 
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She deactivated already?
Why do people do that?
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i think she deactivated because she was unable to manage the information overload
roco |
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I like myself and that's all that matters. I keep telling myself that. Ohhhh look at the pretty colors.
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I'm getting email from guys asking if I want to chat with them. Cool, but the emails don't say anything else and most of their blogs don't say anything else. In a bar men ask to chat and if they're cute then hell yea I chat but here I imagined getting emails with some information about the guy or a witty joke or something. I don't know how to respond to these messages. I can't just chat with a dozen guys everyday because I do have other things to do. When I tried saying, thanks but I don't think we'd work out, I get the response, how do you know if we don't chat? I was wondering how the other women of mingle2 handled these messages? Do you just ignore them or send them one note? What if they are posting on the forums is that different? I want to be polite but I'm not attached to this computer 24/7. Guys, I already know your ideas but sorry, I can't sleep with every guy who emails. My bed is not that big.  This seems familiar
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I'm getting email from guys asking if I want to chat with them. Cool, but the emails don't say anything else and most of their blogs don't say anything else. In a bar men ask to chat and if they're cute then hell yea I chat but here I imagined getting emails with some information about the guy or a witty joke or something. I don't know how to respond to these messages. I can't just chat with a dozen guys everyday because I do have other things to do. When I tried saying, thanks but I don't think we'd work out, I get the response, how do you know if we don't chat? I was wondering how the other women of mingle2 handled these messages? Do you just ignore them or send them one note? What if they are posting on the forums is that different? I want to be polite but I'm not attached to this computer 24/7. Guys, I already know your ideas but sorry, I can't sleep with every guy who emails. My bed is not that big. Deactivate. |
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