Topic: I'm new and nervous
Cristina4fun's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:08 PM
Has this site actually helped anyone? For you ladies, if you've gone out with any guys from here, is there a lot of pressure on expectations? I'm fairly new to the dating scene and seem to be really good at meeting all the wrong guys.

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:11 PM
It works for some. I think it is all what you put into it. Get involved with the forums and people will get to know you and you will get to know them as well.

Trust me, it's not all about doing a search and emailing!

And there have been quite a few success stories on this site. Here is the link if you want to check them out.

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/122097

Welcome to the site and good luck! flowerforyou

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:11 PM
and you will meet a LOT of wrong guys.

I have yet to meet any women per say but on other sites I was let down in a huge way.

I attract head cases from time to time.

Just be careful and have fun!

Shagwell's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:16 PM

Has this site actually helped anyone? For you ladies, if you've gone out with any guys from here, is there a lot of pressure on expectations? I'm fairly new to the dating scene and seem to be really good at meeting all the wrong guys.


define "the wrong guys" :laughing:

no photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:18 PM
just be as honest as you can
don't play games
and you'll be beating the good ones off with a stick in no time
:smile:

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:19 PM
flowerforyou Welcome & enjoyflowerforyou

Cristina4fun's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:21 PM
So what exactly does the mutual match mean? The "so and so wants to meet you" thing?

kojack's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:21 PM
Welcome to the site. I am a Site Mod. read this and post and have fun in forums and you will be fine. If you have any questions feel free to contact me.

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/124792


ljcc1964's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:23 PM
FOR GOD'S SAKE RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!


ARE YOU LISTENING?!?!?!

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PATSFAN's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:23 PM

So what exactly does the mutual match mean? The "so and so wants to meet you" thing?





At the top of the page click search & then click Mutual Match, it will explain how it works, also on that page there is a FAQ link that you can click on.

singlelife44's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:24 PM

Has this site actually helped anyone? For you ladies, if you've gone out with any guys from here, is there a lot of pressure on expectations? I'm fairly new to the dating scene and seem to be really good at meeting all the wrong guys.


I've met lots of great people here...Just be yourself and have fun!

samuelemeka's photo
Sun 01/25/09 04:15 AM
hi,i know people all over the world has this same complain,but try and make up your mind first to meet with some one you really feel for and who you are sure that feels for you.

JoeW99's photo
Sun 01/25/09 04:30 AM
Many "wrong guys" anywhere you go, best of luck finding the "right guy". flowerforyou

Welcome to the site.