Start trusting him, so you don't have to find someone else

honey do you really need us to tell you that! Listen to your heart if he was truely a boyfriend then he would NEVER say such a thing!! MOVE ON!!!

I've told her that many times... to go find someone better for her. I really don't think im good enough for her, and thats a fact.
The problem we had this time, is that I have lots goin on in my life. I have several hobbies, lots of VW Trike and Ham radio friends, and work in the shop to do, plus I take care of this property. I spend at least an hour chatting with her every night, usually longer, and frequently in the morning also. She been accusing me of chatting with other women lately, and I couldn't seem to get it thru her head that I was either working, riding, or talking on the ham radio. I don't live online, and spend way too much time sittin here as it is. It's been 15 1/2 months for us so far, and she just needs to learn to trust me. We had a long talk this morning, so were fine now, hopefully. I love you honey

It is not up to them to decide when or if I choose to no longer be single. The choice is mine a lone.