I understand that Bigpappa,
It isn't an everyday thing... I just think it loses its appeal if over
used.... But when you do it spontaneously from time to time it should be
ALL Good right..???

Do Guys really have to be the "Bad Boy" Evil Twin thing?? If so I am
in a lot of trouble.. I just want to treat the Ladies with Honesty &
Respect.. I want to be one of their Best frinds.. Their shoulder to cry
on or just listen to what they are upset about without trying to fix
it.. unless she wants it....

Is this crazy too...??

i know a lot of women i dated said one of the things they liked was
they felt safe when i was with them out and about or just at home

I WANT POPCORN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

popping ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,popping !!!!!!!!!!

YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! popocorn.. thanks pappa!!!!!!!!!!!

YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! popocorn.. thanks pappa!!!!!!!!!!!

I just want his Credit card and those sweet little words hes
whipers.......... no limit........

Karensmiles.. Is that always what's important??? I guess that's why I
don't let women know how much I make.. But I will say this... I live in
WA & I work with computers.. ???

Well both of you guys are right. At times women say they want the nice
guy that does those things for her and always there but then they get
one at times that goes overboard and now she decides she wants the bad
boy image of a guy. What happens is we all say we want either the nice
girl or guy but then they tend to go overboard doing toooo much. All of
those things are nice among others we all like someone to do for use.
But ....... in moderation not so far up each behind ya don't have time
to think. We all tend to overdo it wanting to show that person how much
we care. In reality most just want the other one to be honoest with them
and have that respect for them and to show them in a look or a touch or
by words they really care for them. Myself the material things I can do
without dont get me wrong they are nice to get at times and even out of
the clear blue just not to the point it is a habit switch things around
that you do for each other so it stays as a nice surprise and not to the
point it is repeated over and over. My self I love to be with
a guy that is not afraid it will hurt his macho image to hold hands in
public or to show he enjoys my company like they do when your alone. It
does not make them any less of a man. It just shows he has a heart and
he is in touch with his feelings.Hey now I don't want a guy that acts
more of a woman than I do lmao either lol.

TxsGal.. very well put... that is my point to a "T"... thank you..

I havent been around much lately but you will see im very rarely serious
on here, Dale!

Okay Karensmiles... all is forgiven... I'm glad to know you...

Humm well in the first place sorry if they ask you right off the bat
what you make or what all kinds of material things you have if your
smart you will turn the other cheek and say see ya. For if all they want
is what you can buy them they don't want you just what you can give
them.

I agree with all of you on this........

Yeah I do that but what about meeeeee

pretty sure i never mentioned material things along with all else you
said gal

TxsGal... I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt... You're
right though... I'm just looking for True Love... How Did Jessica Rabbit
put... He makes me laugh....

Just be yourself...
If you are a nice guy, be a nice guy. If you are a bad boy, be a bad
boy.

Attraction is fine, but a strong relationship is based on honesty and
integrity. If you are a nice guy, but start acting like a bad boy, how
long will that act last?

Be true to yourself and it will pay off in the long run!!

nicely said!!!!!

This is a wonderful thread...it is nice to hear that the trueness of
one's love could be recognized..