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Okay, lets just say you've been talking to someone on a site like this for a while now and you've been messaging daily and what not. Even talked on the phone a few times. Well, after a while you begin to like them and you don't know how they feel. Would it be to straight forward to ask them in a message how they felt things were going? How they felt about the two of you... what is going through their head? 
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Edited by
bryguy1972
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Wed 01/21/09 09:02 PM
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double post. sorry.
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Something like this sound okay? I was just wondering where we stand at the moment in your opinion. Hope I didn't just scare you away... But it is just something I kinda want to know. I look forward to getting your e-mails at night... and in the mornings. Not gonna lie, I was excited to get your phone call last night. I just wanna know what is going through your head. If you don't want to answer that is fine. But I'm not losing anything by asking, (In theory) right? If you take this approach, make sure you are both relaxed and keep an upbeat attitude. I like to sneak subtle hints to women. Keep the whole process fun. |
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Just kidding. He knows you well enough by now to know what to expect. Go for it.
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I would pour my heart out in words, letter or email and put the ball in their court. Better to let your feelings out than to feel uncertain about them. If a girl did this to you... would it freak you out though? It depends on how long you have known him. 2 weeks, I'm running. 2 months, sure, why not. Again, I would do this by phone. You will be able to hear the tone in his voice, if he hesitates with his responses, etc. Doing that by email is kinda high schoolish in my opinion, but whatever floats your boat. |
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Okay, lets just say you've been talking to someone on a site like this for a while now and you've been messaging daily and what not. Even talked on the phone a few times. Well, after a while you begin to like them and you don't know how they feel. Would it be to straight forward to ask them in a message how they felt things were going? How they felt about the two of you... what is going through their head? we're not all scared little boys out here. 
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Well I guess the second guy doesn't stand a chance. What a shame.
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Edited by
Krista_Markayla
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Wed 01/21/09 09:13 PM
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I sent it high school style. He sent me a message back saying he'll call in like 15 minutes. So I guess we shall see what happens in the end? Aye?
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Best of luck.
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haha thanks. I'm kinda stressing. He's talking about random stuff....
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good luck to him
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I did that and now we are dating. Go for it.
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Okay- Here's what happened.
His final answer- It's mutual. |
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Okay- Here's what happened. His final answer- It's mutual. duh. Do you see how retarded we can get sometimes? Of course it was and you knew it. 
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Okay- Here's what happened. His final answer- It's mutual. Cool, get that relationship rolling and have some fun, good luck :) |
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Little lady, I feel that if you don't ever act on your feelings then you might miss out on something that is good for you! Words can be harsh but they can't kill you!
I say.....tell him how you feel about him! Do your thing! Just saying 
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Now create some space so you can meet in person.... don't waffle around online forever, do it, if you both think there may be something to like about each other...meet up.
And remember, the opportunity for a new friend is there.... no expectations no disappointments. |
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Edited by
JenniferAld
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Thu 01/22/09 05:11 PM
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How did it work out?
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