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Topic: What would you think
Cangel Joined Wed 07/09/08 Posts: 2799	Wed 01/21/09 07:26 PM
okay you met a guy off mingle, he apperently didn't feel nothing, so you take him off your friends list on here. An you don't send him no messages cause your last message to him was you would not bother him any more cause things didn't work out. Then you come on, to find a friends request from the same guy? What would you do, accept it? decline it? or just wonder what the heck type of game is he playing?

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 01/21/09 07:27 PM
I'd accept it, ask him what his intentions were, and if they weren't satisfying enough, then I'd delete him again.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 01/21/09 07:27 PM
talk to him about it

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/21/09 07:27 PM
Block him.

bryguy1972 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 251	Wed 01/21/09 07:29 PM
I think you know the answer to this.

lnghntr Joined Sun 08/03/08 Posts: 1618	Wed 01/21/09 07:29 PM
never met a guy on here...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 01/21/09 07:29 PM
Just decline it, why bother, you told him it wouldn't work out.

Cangel Joined Wed 07/09/08 Posts: 2799	Wed 01/21/09 07:30 PM
I accepted it, cause I saw he was on, I sent him a message about what was up? Why was he so quiet, and he did like he did after we met he didn't send me no reply. So guess its going to be deleted again if he don't respond by tomorrow

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 01/21/09 07:30 PM
Block him. Actually he may have had some second thoughts. Why not accept his request, I have had several first meets that were just not a love connection but they have turned out to be great friends...

rlynne Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 2458	Wed 01/21/09 07:30 PM
I'd accept it, ask him what his intentions were, and if they weren't satisfying enough, then I'd delete him again. I like this...and then keep doing it till he just gives up oh this would be mean, thats bad....do it anyway

wmb07 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 1232	Wed 01/21/09 07:30 PM
I'd decline it. Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't know what they want!

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Wed 01/21/09 07:31 PM
Yeah. It's a total waste of time. You're just gonna go around in circles.

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Wed 01/21/09 07:34 PM
okay you met a guy off mingle, he apperently didn't feel nothing, so you take him off your friends list on here. An you don't send him no messages cause your last message to him was you would not bother him any more cause things didn't work out. Then you come on, to find a friends request from the same guy? What would you do, accept it? decline it? or just wonder what the heck type of game is he playing? Am I reading this correctly. Every one on your friends list is a possible romantic interest? If that is your criteria then the answer is clear. JMO

Cangel Joined Wed 07/09/08 Posts: 2799	Wed 01/21/09 07:37 PM
no not all my friends are potential romantic love interests

Cangel Joined Wed 07/09/08 Posts: 2799	Wed 01/21/09 07:42 PM
I'd accept it, ask him what his intentions were, and if they weren't satisfying enough, then I'd delete him again. I like this...and then keep doing it till he just gives up oh this would be mean, thats bad....do it anyway I might do this just to make him think what the flip

iverson721 Joined Thu 10/02/08 Posts: 193	Wed 01/21/09 07:52 PM
decline..move on..

Smilin_eyez Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 126	Wed 01/21/09 07:56 PM
yea, don't sweat it. or read too much into it..

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 01/21/09 07:59 PM
okay you met a guy off mingle, he apperently didn't feel nothing, so you take him off your friends list on here. An you don't send him no messages cause your last message to him was you would not bother him any more cause things didn't work out. Then you come on, to find a friends request from the same guy? What would you do, accept it? decline it? or just wonder what the heck type of game is he playing? When I remove a friend from my friend's list, it's not an accident. It's usually about a character trait that I find completely unacceptable. I wouldn't remove someone from my friend's list because I'm not romantically interested, unless she pressed the issue and wouldn't take no for an answer. My friend's list, however, is just that, a list of friends, male and female, and the occasional wtf and nfc types.. There's always room for one more of those.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 01/21/09 08:01 PM
I accepted it, cause I saw he was on, I sent him a message about what was up? Why was he so quiet, and he did like he did after we met he didn't send me no reply. So guess its going to be deleted again if he don't respond by tomorrow cangel needs more friends. Dogpile on the wabbit!

dbh1966 Joined Sun 12/07/08 Posts: 470	Wed 01/21/09 08:03 PM
okay you met a guy off mingle, he apperently didn't feel nothing, so you take him off your friends list on here. An you don't send him no messages cause your last message to him was you would not bother him any more cause things didn't work out. Then you come on, to find a friends request from the same guy? What would you do, accept it? decline it? or just wonder what the heck type of game is he playing? Ask him. Don't friends mean friends anyway? Think he decided he at least wants to be your friend?