Have you ever looked at profiles here on JSH, or even on other sites,
and honed in on one particular aspect of the self-summary that made you
go, "Nope, no way!" regardless of how good the rest of the information
might be?

I think most, if not all, of us have some set of standards we use to
determine who may be, and who is definitely not, someone we might want
to get to know. Personally, I think that's generally a good thing (as
long as you don't get so overselective that everyone is automatically
screened out at the beginning), because who wants to be with someone who
has a belief or a habit or a lifestyle that you can't stand?

So I'd like to ask the question: What is the ONE thing that you would
focus on first, the ONE thing that would make you say "No thanks" and
move on to the next profile?

And I know we could make individual (long) lists here, but I'd like to
narrow it down to one main one per person, just to get an idea of where
everyone's first priorities lie! And it doesn't have to be something
necessarily on the profile; I'm just using that as a reference point.
If it's something else, that's OK, too --but it might be a way of
letting us get to know a little something about each other's tastes and
preferences.

Married and looking for a discrete encounter!!!!!!!

NO THANX!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ditto on native's answer, also...

Must not drink or smoke. Maybe an occasional ****tail but definitely not
smoking.

Must not have kids on a full-time basis.

Must not be an atheist and would prefer someone who's not agnostic,
either.

I'm sure I can think of other things, too, but those are the main ones.

ohhh...you said one..

well, those are the one things ..if i were to give an answer four times.
lol

also, just Separated


And while it's not always bothered ne that someone smokes it is starting
to bother me. Kissing an ash try is not something I want to do any more

DITTO to Native's answer

But also to "Seeking intimate encouter'

Or the use of slang terminology to describe certain female atributes ...

Fitness Trainer/Healthy Lifestyle

Sorry Lex, I know that seems like two, but it isn't. I smoke, I'm
fluffy, and I am not a vegetarian. I'm not into personal body fitness
or eating completely healthy. I don't think I could be compatible with
someone who was fitness and health conscious. I think such a person
would not be able to accept me for who I am. Which is cool, not
everyone is meant for me.

attributes....

no unhealthy addictions, period.

must be able to punctuate, spell, and put together a coherent string of
sentences.

Oh I'm glad you brought that up, Lulu...you KNOW that's a given for me!

Long winded profiles.......geesh....make's my eyes hurt.

seperated

seperated

tripleo intimate encounters!

LOL..we'd never get along, then. Cuz I have a HELL of a lot more to say
than what's in my profile. I'd drive you nuts, because I've got
puleeenty to talk about.

heh, yeah...fingernails on the chalkboard, hehe...

I've noticed that about you jeanc

hi kim.....what's up?

thanks, new g

wouldn't want you to be any other way jeanc.......interesting readings
when your involved.