What do you consider to be healthy and unhealthy in relationships? Is "sexx part" the most important for you if so WHY?? Do looks matter?

healthy+ communication, honesty, trust, quality time together, and yes sex... do looks matter? well to a large degree it does. I am not attracted to overweight people yet they don't get it.. I just do not find it appealing....its a turn off ..and there has to be some physical attraction to begin with. is sex the most important part for me... well it does play a huge and important part of it.. I may be 60 but I am far far from dead.... not ready for the old folks home yet.. I watched my 85 year old grandparents make out in the back seat of my car one time... ewww.. but now I realize the difference..lol

unhealthy? hmmm arguements finacices, cheating , and the list could be so much longer.