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Topic: The Fairy Tale Dream
MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:11 AM


:heart: Do you think LOVE fails so often because we want the fairy tale dream?:heart:

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:12 AM
Good point!!

ashinaustin's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:14 AM
absolutely

startattoo's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:14 AM
what is the fairy tale dream exactly? i dont really think thats why love fails...i think its because people are scared and realize they have to be with one person for the rest of their lives...thats why my love failed anyway...hubby wanted to sleep with more than just me...frustrated thats just my opinion...

cjeanw's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:14 AM
You can't make someone into what they are not. Not fair to anyone. So, yes love fails a lot because we have our own idea of a fairy tale dream...

JoLynn's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:15 AM
I'm sure

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Sun 01/18/09 10:16 AM



:heart: Do you think LOVE fails so often because we want the fairy tale dream?:heart:


I think so. People believe in that "happily ever after" bull-honkey and are often disappointed when it just isn't that simple. Not everyone out there can end up with their Prince Charming or Cinderella.

plain_jane1's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:17 AM
I think it fails because no one wants to forth the effort to make the fairytale come true.

hdjackyl's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:19 AM
No, I don't think it's because of that.

Shagwell's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:22 AM
oh come on, women are fed this crap all their lives, look at every movie ever made about relationships! flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:23 AM

what is the fairy tale dream exactly? i dont really think thats why love fails...i think its because people are scared and realize they have to be with one person for the rest of their lives...thats why my love failed anyway...hubby wanted to sleep with more than just me...frustrated thats just my opinion...
flowerforyou interestingflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:23 AM

oh come on, women are fed this crap all their lives, look at every movie ever made about relationships! flowerforyou
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plain_jane1's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:25 AM

No, I don't think it's because of that.



Why not lots of guys claim that they're romantics but no one has proved it to me.

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Sun 01/18/09 10:28 AM
hmmmm....I'm not looking for the fairy tale...or the perfect man...just the perfect man for me....my "head over heels"....I think each of us enter into a relationship thinking it is the fairy tale...but the minute something goes wrong...instead of fixing it...we bail...jmo

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:30 AM
A fairytail...to each, it's own individuality. For, it is like no other before it. We can not plan to have have one. If it is to become, it will unfold unto it's own self.

Shagwell's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:31 AM


No, I don't think it's because of that.



Why not lots of guys claim that they're romantics but no one has proved it to me.


romance is a shared moment between two people, it's not where the guy takes you or how much money he spends on you, or which expensive restaurant he takes you, nor it is an act...(he would jump off a building for you, etc) flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:34 AM


No, I don't think it's because of that.



Why not lots of guys claim that they're romantics but no one has proved it to me.
happy Because they really arn't romanticflowerforyouMost guys arn'tflowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:36 AM
Edited by shoesmonkey on Sun 01/18/09 10:39 AM



No, I don't think it's because of that.



Why not lots of guys claim that they're romantics but no one has proved it to me.


romance is a shared moment between two people, it's not where the guy takes you or how much money he spends on you, or which expensive restaurant he takes you, nor it is an act...(he would jump off a building for you, etc) flowerforyou
Romance is, looking deeply into your other's eye's and reading their thought's. I've lost one recently because of what he thought he was reading in my eye's. But, I think he was seeing his reflection.

hdjackyl's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:36 AM
Well, I think that most get together for the wrong reasons to begin with. It may be looks, financial reasons, lots of different reasons. Look around this site... you've got some really nice people.. Big hearts, lots of personality and seem to be decent. I'm gonna get creamed for this..but maybe some not real attractive. (I'm not excluding me so don't yell at me) People don't take the time to get to know them/ us. THey are looking for the "eye candy". Doesn't matter if you are man or woman.. both do it. If more people took into consideration what's on the inside just as much as the outside..I think more would work.. Just my opinion.. I may be wrong. :)

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 01/18/09 10:41 AM

Well, I think that most get together for the wrong reasons to begin with. It may be looks, financial reasons, lots of different reasons. Look around this site... you've got some really nice people.. Big hearts, lots of personality and seem to be decent. I'm gonna get creamed for this..but maybe some not real attractive. (I'm not excluding me so don't yell at me) People don't take the time to get to know them/ us. THey are looking for the "eye candy". Doesn't matter if you are man or woman.. both do it. If more people took into consideration what's on the inside just as much as the outside..I think more would work.. Just my opinion.. I may be wrong. :)
You're on the money for some. We all have our fear's. So, no one is to be condemned.

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