Topic: What are some things you can do?
galendgirl's photo
Sat 01/17/09 09:31 PM

any date that involved activity (especially outdoors) will trump an evening of sitting still

i save those "sitting still" ideas for a rainy day

(as if i have a long line of dates set up! LOL) laugh


Geez...just go ask someone to take that walk with you. You might be surprised at the positive response!

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 01/17/09 09:39 PM

any date that involved activity (especially outdoors) will trump an evening of sitting still

i save those "sitting still" ideas for a rainy day

(as if i have a long line of dates set up! LOL) laugh


As long as you have the activity set and a date to go along...you'd be set for life. Well...maybe not for life, but you'll be set.:tongue:

sensualsweet's photo
Sat 01/17/09 09:39 PM

smitten What are some things you do with your significant other that aren't overly expensive and lots of fun?smitten


The following Ideas depend upon where you live and the weather at the time:

- Play badminton on the beach or a park.
- Play frisbee in a park or Fly a Kite.
- Push her on a swing, or swing side by side
and see who can go the highest.
- Then have a picnic.
- Go fishing - take a picnic lunch
- Rent a canoe and paddle down the river
- Build a snowman or snowfort together
- Each builds a snow statue of the other
- Make snow Angels and then have a snowball fight
- Fill super soakers with koolaid or juice,
soda, whatever, then go inside and lick it off
each other.
- Sit on a lake, river or canal bank and skip
stones.
- Go for a walk and look for pretty stones or
4 Leaf Clovers
- Give each other a massage, then take a bath
together.
- Cook something together in the kitchen
- Invite friends and/or family for a potluck BBQ
- Feed the birds (use stale bread or crackers
Do not use popcorn)
- Get an astrology map, a flashlight and a blanket
Lie on the blanket together and try to identify
the constellations (star formations)
- Lie on a blanket in the park and talk about what
the clouds are shaped like
- Play board games, build a jigsaw puzzle together
- Write messages with your fingertips on each
other's back and try to guess what the other
is writing
- Get some finger paints and an old sheet and
create a masterpiece together without using
your hands. (Anything but your hands) Each of
you can use a different color(s) than the other
then sign and date your work together
- Go through each other's family photo album
together
- Play strip poker, or favor poker (loser does a
special favor for the winner of the hand)
- Have a water balloon fight
- Write 3x5 cards with things you like about
each other... alternating turns to read them
one by one to each other. (How do I love thee?)

Those should keep you busy until I can think of some more.

The whole point is to take time getting to know each other more deeply, more intimately. by touching each other and being creative or imaginative together. Some may seem corny, but they are fun times and create some treasured memories.

Have fun and enjoy each other.






B_Root's photo
Sat 01/17/09 09:44 PM
make her dinner and then rent a movie. or if its nice out side a trip to the beach is always fun.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/18/09 12:35 PM


smitten What are some things you do with your significant other that aren't overly expensive and lots of fun?smitten


The following Ideas depend upon where you live and the weather at the time:

- Play badminton on the beach or a park.
- Play frisbee in a park or Fly a Kite.
- Push her on a swing, or swing side by side
and see who can go the highest.
- Then have a picnic.
- Go fishing - take a picnic lunch
- Rent a canoe and paddle down the river
- Build a snowman or snowfort together
- Each builds a snow statue of the other
- Make snow Angels and then have a snowball fight
- Fill super soakers with koolaid or juice,
soda, whatever, then go inside and lick it off
each other.
- Sit on a lake, river or canal bank and skip
stones.
- Go for a walk and look for pretty stones or
4 Leaf Clovers
- Give each other a massage, then take a bath
together.
- Cook something together in the kitchen
- Invite friends and/or family for a potluck BBQ
- Feed the birds (use stale bread or crackers
Do not use popcorn)
- Get an astrology map, a flashlight and a blanket
Lie on the blanket together and try to identify
the constellations (star formations)
- Lie on a blanket in the park and talk about what
the clouds are shaped like
- Play board games, build a jigsaw puzzle together
- Write messages with your fingertips on each
other's back and try to guess what the other
is writing
- Get some finger paints and an old sheet and
create a masterpiece together without using
your hands. (Anything but your hands) Each of
you can use a different color(s) than the other
then sign and date your work together
- Go through each other's family photo album
together
- Play strip poker, or favor poker (loser does a
special favor for the winner of the hand)
- Have a water balloon fight
- Write 3x5 cards with things you like about
each other... alternating turns to read them
one by one to each other. (How do I love thee?)

Those should keep you busy until I can think of some more.

The whole point is to take time getting to know each other more deeply, more intimately. by touching each other and being creative or imaginative together. Some may seem corny, but they are fun times and create some treasured memories.

Have fun and enjoy each other.








bigsmile Those are some great ideas. flowerforyou Thank you for sharing that.flowerforyou

MeChrissy2's photo
Sun 01/18/09 12:37 PM

any date that involved activity (especially outdoors) will trump an evening of sitting still

i save those "sitting still" ideas for a rainy day

(as if i have a long line of dates set up! LOL) laugh


You should. You are yummy.love

txmomof2's photo
Sun 01/18/09 12:38 PM

hiking and camping in the winter is great! there's nothing like sitting around the fire when its snowing.

another good idea - get lost!
...no seriously - pick a cardinal direction and aim to find places for adventure or great pictures.

or --> act like a kid again.
go play on some swings or climb a tree.

- -- -- -- --

generally, if you smile a lot - and make an effort to laugh and be positive - you'll have a great time.



OK Are you asking?laugh laugh

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 12:47 PM
^^, ^

self esteem ++


:smile:



Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 01/18/09 12:48 PM
I like ice cream smitten

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 12:48 PM
museums (art, nature)
outdoor concerts
visiting galleries
country drives
antiquing
picnics
hiking
garden walks
walks along the water
movies
cooking together
snuggling
watching dvds
exploring quaint local towns we've never seen
watching free outdoor sports
going for icecream
having an inexpensive dinner
going to an amusement park
going to a street festival
go fishing
stargaze
watch the sunset or sunrise
go to the zoo
play in bed



MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/18/09 09:32 PM

museums (art, nature)
outdoor concerts
visiting galleries
country drives
antiquing
picnics
hiking
garden walks
walks along the water
movies
cooking together
snuggling
watching dvds
exploring quaint local towns we've never seen
watching free outdoor sports
going for icecream
having an inexpensive dinner
going to an amusement park
going to a street festival
go fishing
stargaze
watch the sunset or sunrise
go to the zoo
play in bed






bigsmile some good ideasbigsmile

Seakolony's photo
Sun 01/18/09 09:39 PM
In my area:

A walk through the trails and zoo in Salisbury, Maryland - Free

A trip to Assateague to see the wild horses and habitat trail - 40.00 yearly or 10 for the day and it allows access to the surfing beach!!

A walk on the boardwalk and renting bikes for the day - 25.00
rides at the boardwalk. 20.00 bracelet rides all day

Hiking out at Trappe Pond - free Pack a lunch and back pack it

Fishing Indian River Inlet cost of bait and tackle

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:30 PM
weigh random fruits and vegetables???noway laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 01/18/09 11:34 PM

smitten What are some things you do with your significant other that aren't overly expensive and lots of fun?smitten
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:angel: Did I say SEX????lol,lol,lolrofl

Tanzkity's photo
Mon 01/19/09 12:08 AM
Have a sh!t load of sex............devil devil devil

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Mon 01/19/09 12:09 AM
drinker have cat hair braiding contests!!!

tngxl65's photo
Mon 01/19/09 12:14 AM
It doesn't really matter what you do. If you're enjoying each other's company, then shopping or running errands is a good time.

If you're just looking for something enjoyable to do together, then take a walk.

It's about the connecting, not about what you're doing.

no photo
Mon 01/19/09 12:17 AM
we can make deodorant commercials in front of the mirror!!!noway laugh

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Mon 01/19/09 12:20 AM
haha I could do this all day!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

No wonder my son thinks Im crazy!!!noway laugh noway

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Mon 01/19/09 12:21 AM

we can make deodorant commercials in front of the mirror!!!noway laugh
noway We could take turns rolling each other,,,lol,,,lollaugh