Ok the first thing I want everyone to know is that I'm not in any way anything near perfect and I don't act 'too good' for anyone. I understand people make mistakes, myself making many every day.

I'm saving sex for marriage and while I hear alot of good things about it, i hear alot of bad things too. Mainly because I would prefer to date women who are wating. I'll admit, I have yet to find one who is waiting but I know they are out there. If I'm going to date someone, it will be because I'm into her and she has what I look for....

Now, here's the question. Is turning down a date because she sleeps or has slept around being judgmental? I have heard good and bad, just wondering what everyone thinks.