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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"? I know its a movie. Might be baced on a book. ![]() |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"? yes an excellent one!!! and i cannot wait to see the movie! |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change. |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"? yes an excellent one!!! and i cannot wait to see the movie! I think I might consult an attorney.... cause this is the story of my life! |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"? It's a really good book, brought up some points you never really wanted to look at why the guy didn't call back, etc.... The movie based on it should do pretty well. |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change. I thought for some reason that I had to give it another go ![]() |
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ok, well, maybe not my whole life. At least twice he was into me.
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Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him.
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Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him. ![]() The wrong number route works too ![]() ![]() |
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oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!! i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!! and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree. i was just plain weirded out. i mean wow. and there went that. he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin. EDIT!!! he peed... not the dog. OOoohhhhh wow ![]() Poor you ![]() |
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Who am I going out with? The real question is, will they or will they not go out with me again.
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change. I thought for some reason that I had to give it another go ![]() I've had those moments also, then at some point during the second date I inevitably think to myself: "Yep, I knew this the first time we went out." ![]() |
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![]() oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!! i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!! and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree. i was just plain weirded out. i mean wow. and there went that. he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin. EDIT!!! he peed... not the dog. Oh, for cripe's sake! You were so, as you say "weirded out" that this guy took a whiz behind a tree? ![]() I think you should be focusing more on the no sparks deal vs. the wiz behind the tree. ![]() Sure glad I didn't judge my ex-wife by her pissing abilities. She needed to take a whiz really bad on our first date, driving her home. She made me pull over just so she could relieve herself vs. pissing on my passenger seat. I politely did so, AND handed her a napkin I had stored in my glovebox! |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change. I thought for some reason that I had to give it another go ![]() I've had those moments also, then at some point during the second date I inevitably think to myself: "Yep, I knew this the first time we went out." ![]() The weekend was not a complete waste ![]() |
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Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him. ![]() what if you turn out to be a stalker? ![]() |
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![]() oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!! i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!! and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree. i was just plain weirded out. i mean wow. and there went that. he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin. EDIT!!! he peed... not the dog. Oh, for cripe's sake! You were so, as you say "weirded out" that this guy took a whiz behind a tree? ![]() I think you should be focusing more on the no sparks deal vs. the wiz behind the tree. ![]() Sure glad I didn't judge my ex-wife by her pissing abilities. She needed to take a whiz really bad on our first date, driving her home. She made me pull over just so she could relieve herself vs. pissing on my passenger seat. I politely did so, AND handed her a napkin I had stored in my glovebox! dude... i didn't judge him by his ability to write his name on bark. LOL i just didn't feel anything. the tinkling thing was just a side note. god. lol but seriously.. thats kinda bad manners on a first date huh... or maybe thats just how i was raised. |
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![]() oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!! i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!! and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree. i was just plain weirded out. i mean wow. and there went that. he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin. EDIT!!! he peed... not the dog. Oh, for cripe's sake! You were so, as you say "weirded out" that this guy took a whiz behind a tree? ![]() I think you should be focusing more on the no sparks deal vs. the wiz behind the tree. ![]() That is one opinion. She felt uncomfortable. I think it's understandable |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change. I thought for some reason that I had to give it another go ![]() I've had those moments also, then at some point during the second date I inevitably think to myself: "Yep, I knew this the first time we went out." ![]() The weekend was not a complete waste ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him. ![]() what if you turn out to be a stalker? ![]() Well actually thats another reason why I take their number now. Long story. Lets not go there. ![]() |
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