Topic: If you have no strong feeling
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Sat 01/17/09 06:22 PM


This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.


Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"?


I know its a movie. Might be baced on a book. :tongue:

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Sat 01/17/09 06:22 PM


This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.


Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"?


yes an excellent one!!!

and i cannot wait to see the movie!

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Sat 01/17/09 06:23 PM

This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.



I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change.

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Sat 01/17/09 06:23 PM



This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.


Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"?


yes an excellent one!!!

and i cannot wait to see the movie!


I think I might consult an attorney.... cause this is the story of my life!

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Sat 01/17/09 06:23 PM
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Sat 01/17/09 06:24 PM


This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.


Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"?


It's a really good book, brought up some points you never really wanted to look at why the guy didn't call back, etc....

The movie based on it should do pretty well.

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Sat 01/17/09 06:24 PM


This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.



I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change.



I thought for some reason that I had to give it another goohwell

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:24 PM
ok, well, maybe not my whole life. At least twice he was into me.

Krimsa's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:26 PM
Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him. happy

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:27 PM

Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him. happy


The wrong number route works toodevil oops

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Sat 01/17/09 06:30 PM

oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!!
i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!!

and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree.

i was just plain weirded out.

i mean wow.

and there went that.

he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin.

EDIT!!!

he peed... not the dog.

OOoohhhhh wowsurprised

Poor youflowerforyou

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Sat 01/17/09 06:30 PM
Who am I going out with? The real question is, will they or will they not go out with me again.


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Sat 01/17/09 06:30 PM



This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.



I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change.



I thought for some reason that I had to give it another goohwell


I've had those moments also, then at some point during the second date I inevitably think to myself: "Yep, I knew this the first time we went out." ohwell

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Sat 01/17/09 06:30 PM
flowerforyou

oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!!
i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!!

and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree.

i was just plain weirded out.

i mean wow.

and there went that.

he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin.

EDIT!!!

he peed... not the dog.


Oh, for cripe's sake! You were so, as you say "weirded out" that this guy took a whiz behind a tree? :laughing:

I think you should be focusing more on the no sparks deal vs. the wiz behind the tree. ohwell

Sure glad I didn't judge my ex-wife by her pissing abilities. She needed to take a whiz really bad on our first date, driving her home. She made me pull over just so she could relieve herself vs. pissing on my passenger seat. I politely did so, AND handed her a napkin I had stored in my glovebox!

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Sat 01/17/09 06:31 PM




This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.



I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change.



I thought for some reason that I had to give it another goohwell


I've had those moments also, then at some point during the second date I inevitably think to myself: "Yep, I knew this the first time we went out." ohwell



The weekend was not a complete waste:wink:

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Sat 01/17/09 06:33 PM

Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him. happy



what if you turn out to be a stalker? flowerforyou

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:33 PM

flowerforyou

oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!!
i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!!

and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree.

i was just plain weirded out.

i mean wow.

and there went that.

he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin.

EDIT!!!

he peed... not the dog.


Oh, for cripe's sake! You were so, as you say "weirded out" that this guy took a whiz behind a tree? :laughing:

I think you should be focusing more on the no sparks deal vs. the wiz behind the tree. ohwell

Sure glad I didn't judge my ex-wife by her pissing abilities. She needed to take a whiz really bad on our first date, driving her home. She made me pull over just so she could relieve herself vs. pissing on my passenger seat. I politely did so, AND handed her a napkin I had stored in my glovebox!


dude... i didn't judge him by his ability to write his name on bark. LOL

i just didn't feel anything. the tinkling thing was just a side note. god. lol

but seriously.. thats kinda bad manners on a first date huh... or maybe thats just how i was raised.

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Sat 01/17/09 06:34 PM

flowerforyou

oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!!
i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!!

and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree.

i was just plain weirded out.

i mean wow.

and there went that.

he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin.

EDIT!!!

he peed... not the dog.


Oh, for cripe's sake! You were so, as you say "weirded out" that this guy took a whiz behind a tree? :laughing:

I think you should be focusing more on the no sparks deal vs. the wiz behind the tree. ohwell




That is one opinion. She felt uncomfortable. I think it's understandable

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Sat 01/17/09 06:35 PM





This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.



I've found that I have a tough time getting past lack of "chemistry" on the first date. It's been my experience that it normally doesn't change.



I thought for some reason that I had to give it another goohwell


I've had those moments also, then at some point during the second date I inevitably think to myself: "Yep, I knew this the first time we went out." ohwell



The weekend was not a complete waste:wink:


smokin Cool smokin

Krimsa's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:35 PM


Ive always avoided the call problem by taking the guy's number. That way its on me to call him. happy



what if you turn out to be a stalker? flowerforyou


Well actually thats another reason why I take their number now. Long story. Lets not go there. happy