In the end, I will win a man that knows how to compliment a woman- not just random body parts...and he will have won a woman that will do her very best to make him the happiest he could possibly ever be.

I'm not particularly fond of that compliment. It is both negative and positive at the same time.

When a person makes a comment about the other person's appearance, they are only expressing their view, through their filters, of what is 'pretty', what is 'beautiful', etc etc, TO THEM.


If there is an agenda attached, ie.... complimenting a woman on her appearance, ie 'pretty face'...in the hopes she will be more open to him.... guess what? He will eventually find a woman who is all about how she looks in other people's eyes, and a mass of insecurity within herself.

Would I choose that kind of relationship?

Hell no!!

I have better things to do.

See the WHO of someone... not the WHAT.