Topic: Ok I hope this is better
Timis76's photo
Wed 01/14/09 01:53 PM
Got the chance to change up my profile after the input of people on hear and some help from my friends. Will change more but what do you think.

MsCarmen's photo
Wed 01/14/09 02:30 PM
That's a lot better. Great job! flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 01/14/09 02:35 PM
drinker

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Wed 01/14/09 03:18 PM
Much better drinker

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Wed 01/14/09 03:23 PM
Very Nice! But you need some photos of your pets! :D

Timis76's photo
Wed 01/14/09 04:40 PM
Thanks all for your input. I understand what you were getting at with the way my profile looks now. And with the pet pics. I will get them on tonight. some are a bit old but i will take more soon and post them.
Thanks again all
Tim

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Fri 01/16/09 03:35 AM
Remove photo #7 (leaning against truck) and replace with another face shot if you have one. That photo makes you look mean.

As far as the profile summary goes, you asked for input, so here you go:

Remove all of the following:

"There is so much more that I will add as I go on but you get the idea.
See the hardest part of theses "profiles" is trying to write down what type of person I am , how people around me perceive me as a person. But I decided to just ask...... and take notes.lol I am who I am. Its hard to vocalize the personality I project on a daily bases. But hear it goes:
I am a fun person to be around. Seems I have a problem with unhappy people, I always seem to try and make them laugh, Everyone told me I am hilarious at times, with the way I see common things around me, at times using things as props for a joke. I Don't know, I just like to have fun and be happy.
I am by far not materialistic in any way, I have what I need to be happy, all I want for is happiness, Compassion, companionship,a good job(s), and good friends.
I am a down to earth level headed person; not sure how to explain this one. You'll catch on as you get to know me.
Very trusting person: I offer everyone I meet two things from the start free. my respect for the person you are, and my trust. Apparently I am also just as forgiving.
Theses are most of the things that I have been told by some of my friends. And I hope that it gives everyone a better understanding of who I am.
What I am NOT looking for:
No control freaks please. I offer a 50/50 relationship.
No impossible dreamers, Life is what it is. Deal with it. But see if you stop and look there is always a way to be happy, and loved those things are or should always be free! And that's what I offer.
Sorry but no big girls please, I understand that they need love too, just not by me."

Replace with: "My life does not revolve around materialism but rather happiness, compassion, companionship,a good job(s), and good friends."

Don't put a list of what you are NOT looking for. I see this a lot on the female profiles. It comes across as being rude or b$%tchy. Focus more on what you are looking for. If you are into thin women, mention that in your "want" list.

honesty, trustworthy, down to earth, etc. are not characteristics that need to be mentioned in a profile. Leave it up to the person to decide if you have these qualities.

Humor? Use it by posting something witty in your profile. Don't say that others think you are humorous. BE humorous.

That's my two cents.

glasses

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Fri 01/16/09 01:58 PM

Remove photo #7 (leaning against truck) and replace with another face shot if you have one. That photo makes you look mean.

As far as the profile summary goes, you asked for input, so here you go:

Remove all of the following:

"There is so much more that I will add as I go on but you get the idea.
See the hardest part of theses "profiles" is trying to write down what type of person I am , how people around me perceive me as a person. But I decided to just ask...... and take notes.lol I am who I am. Its hard to vocalize the personality I project on a daily bases. But hear it goes:
I am a fun person to be around. Seems I have a problem with unhappy people, I always seem to try and make them laugh, Everyone told me I am hilarious at times, with the way I see common things around me, at times using things as props for a joke. I Don't know, I just like to have fun and be happy.
I am by far not materialistic in any way, I have what I need to be happy, all I want for is happiness, Compassion, companionship,a good job(s), and good friends.
I am a down to earth level headed person; not sure how to explain this one. You'll catch on as you get to know me.
Very trusting person: I offer everyone I meet two things from the start free. my respect for the person you are, and my trust. Apparently I am also just as forgiving.
Theses are most of the things that I have been told by some of my friends. And I hope that it gives everyone a better understanding of who I am.
What I am NOT looking for:
No control freaks please. I offer a 50/50 relationship.
No impossible dreamers, Life is what it is. Deal with it. But see if you stop and look there is always a way to be happy, and loved those things are or should always be free! And that's what I offer.
Sorry but no big girls please, I understand that they need love too, just not by me."

Replace with: "My life does not revolve around materialism but rather happiness, compassion, companionship,a good job(s), and good friends."

Don't put a list of what you are NOT looking for. I see this a lot on the female profiles. It comes across as being rude or b$%tchy. Focus more on what you are looking for. If you are into thin women, mention that in your "want" list.

honesty, trustworthy, down to earth, etc. are not characteristics that need to be mentioned in a profile. Leave it up to the person to decide if you have these qualities.

Humor? Use it by posting something witty in your profile. Don't say that others think you are humorous. BE humorous.

That's my two cents.

glasses


Personally I think I like that you took your friends advice and how they veiwed you as a friend.

You sound passionate about what you don't want in your life. It is only rude if you list things you don't like in women or men with no consideration to the expressiveness to your writings. A great starting point for any relationship is knowing what you don't want and allowing new possiblities to evolve that is why we learn from failed relationships in the past. This worked but this didn't so I am going to remember that for any future relationships.

I LOVE THE PHOTOS OF YOUR PETS!

He did make some good suggestions but put them into your own words. This is your profile and it should be from you. That is who we want to hear from when reading them.


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Fri 01/16/09 01:58 PM
GREAT PROFILE!