Topic: Can you love someone and not know it?
Italy0219's photo
Tue 01/13/09 07:57 PM
Also, if you are sure you are in love, do you say it to them at least once a day? at night before you fall asleep? this would be a significant other, I am not talking about your kids.

rlynne's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:04 PM
if its real it need not be said constantly, but its nice to hear..its more within your actions..so without words at all..you can tell someone you love them every minute you are with them

plainascanbe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:05 PM
The little things are best left unspoken, and cherished the most

shoesmonkey's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:08 PM
How could you possibly love some one and not know it???????????? If I do then, yes, ocourse I say it. Even to a girlfriend who mean's that much me.

plainascanbe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:18 PM
I believe that the "love" used in life should be spoken in volumes to show we less forget.

sparksley's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:23 PM
Edited by sparksley on Tue 01/13/09 08:25 PM
Hah. People use the word lightly. You know how to test you are in love? Let's take you both in a room and tell you that you have an opportunity to jump in front of your lover's bullet. That's a good scenario.

All of the embellishment and confirmation of words is pointless. Actions determine the nature of the beast.

plainascanbe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:56 PM
definately daily

Aquila_'s photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:01 PM
Most emotions don't exist without your knowledge.
If you are in pain but don't feel it are you really in pain?
If you hate someone but you don't know it how can you really hate them?
If you don't feel love for someone then you don't love them. You might like someone a whole lot and then later define your lot of liking as love but until you do it's not love.



Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:09 PM

Also, if you are sure you are in love, do you say it to them at least once a day? at night before you fall asleep? this would be a significant other, I am not talking about your kids.


I've been a dopey guy in love more than once in my life without knowing it.

I strongly agree that it's more of a form of action of giving than a verbal thing. The verbal statements and pocket change might get you a cup of coffee if it's not expressed in other ways.

plainascanbe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:10 PM
its a strange concept how far a entity will go for affection, is it really love or mere infatuation, love is conflicting in its best and worst scenarios

keepthehope's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:18 PM
I think that it's possible. I think you can be so caught up in what you think is going on, that you miss what is really going and then you are surprised.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:21 PM
I don't have this problem. I am alone.