Topic: Attraction
niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:33 PM
Is physical attraction really what it's all about now a days?

frustrated

brokenwings30's photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:35 PM
I think thats where it starts,Most people respond more to a person they find attractive,then comes getting to know their personality.Im not saying I agree with this,just seems to be the way it goes

no photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:35 PM
Sure feels like it :(

niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:36 PM
I am finding that out.

no photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:38 PM
Cetainly not all, but let's not kid ourselves and say it is not a factor.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:39 PM
It has importance to a degree, for me there has to be way more than just that. It's kind of shallow. JMO

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:41 PM
You know some people think it's a bad thing. It's just the way we are wired. It's the way we pair up to propagate the species. There isn't anything wrong with it. It would be unrealistic to expect all men to put aside what I look like and be attracted to me anyway.

It's just the way of things.

niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:51 PM
You are right. It is important to a certain degree. I would be a liar if I said that I didn't do it myself on ocassion. I have grown past that stage and at this point in my life I am trying to look at the good in people versus just what they look like on the outside. I realize that that is just my opinion though.

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 01/13/09 03:57 PM
I believe a person should absolutely base their choice of mate on more than looks. It is simply very often the initial way we catch each other's eye.....being unentirely mental creatures.

niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:13 PM
You are right.

Aquila_'s photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:14 PM
Only to those who don't read profiles.

TBRich's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:14 PM
Not really (hey look at me) it is about attraction which can be done on several levels.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:16 PM

You are right. It is important to a certain degree. I would be a liar if I said that I didn't do it myself on ocassion. I have grown past that stage and at this point in my life I am trying to look at the good in people versus just what they look like on the outside. I realize that that is just my opinion though.



I agree , as time goes by you realize more & more about what you really want & I think alot of times the rite person gets passed over.

JoeW99's photo
Tue 01/13/09 05:34 PM

Only to those who don't read profiles.


Looks have never been a deal breaker- although having the personality of a rock and the temperament of a badger has.

Read a profile, talk to a person and get to know them. Sadly people still don't understand looks fade way before a loving relationship does.