Ok I have gotten emails from a few different women. I answer them and they answer me back and then nothing.? WTF?

pick up the phone make a date.

Same WTF Question? And usually they don't give out their number in the first few emails...

Perhaps they are busy...or in ICU...lol. I had that happen once. Met someone, hit it off and then suddenly ended up in the ICU due to a car accident. By the time I returned home a few weeks later, he had assumed I was ditching him intentionally and had left a series of messages telling me how upset he was over my "stopping communication".

maybe you bore them to death!!!

jk!!!


What do you say in the emails??? I need proof!!!

ask them.. entice them with good conversation...

does it matter they sent me the email first and isn't it just courteous to answer someone. I just answered myself. If they are the kinds of women that will send you emails then leave you hanging then the hell with them anyway

Somebody seems upset!!!

Your happiness is not dependent on an email from another person. You do realize this, right? Some people are new and learning how to work the site. Others may have had something come up irl and are dealing with that. Don't take it personal.

welcome to the mingle !

it is to your lack of communication skills.

stop giving generic answers and talk to the women as a real person

I have received mails inviting me to get to know them, and when I respond wanting to know them, i get things like this
"i like to have fun, and love to laugh. I like the outdoors and maybe catching a movie".

What person on earth does not like those things???

try communicating something identifying and singular to you...don't be another joe shmoe

I am joe schmoe. I am veddy veddy funee man.

let's go out and get WiLd!

Patience is all you need.

Oh, you definitely need patience. Stereotyping and whining wont help at all.

Shine it on, man. If they answer you, fantastic. If not, that's no great shakes, either. If you go through life hanging on somebody's next word, you'll miss all the other stuff.

did they read them? maybe they havent been back on or read them and didnt have time to reply back at the moment? and will next time they sign back on?

The thing is, you might want to look at how you're responding. The fact that you ARE responding is a good thing but if you're not giving them enough to start/continue a conversation, then that's something to consider. Or, perhaps you're giving too much information or getting too personal too quickly.

Or it could be they are just flaky. Hard to say. But, hang in there. It was only a couple of women, there are millions more out there. One of these days, there's gonna be a spark in the conversation that will keep it flowing. Until then, be patient and have fun

Gosh, unless you behaved like a complete bridge troll, I'D ANSWER YA!!! DANG!!!
Oh this cracks me up!! My Little Bit O'Velcro is looking at the emoticons moving around. He's so freakin' cute!!!!!